Quality of Life

Review of Acai Berry : Why You need to skip this fresh fruit

2011-08-26T12:47:00.000-07:00

I was curious to see what the Acai Berry hype was and decided to try it myself. After taking the product twice/three times a day over 3-4 weeks I found that I lost a considerable amount of weight when combined with moderate excercise and over Christmas, when I couldn't excercise, I did not put any weight on despite indulging. Personally, I have had no negative side effects but rather found that taking the tablets did make me feel more energised and I did sleep better.I find these tablets to be most effective when combined with a sensible eating plan and when taking regular excercise and I cannot recommend them enough if you are buying these tablets alongside starting a new fitness regime. If you are looking for a "quick fix" then I don't think this will give the results you want, but as a long term sustainable plan the supplements are very effective. Troo Health Care are also a pleasure to use; I ordered my second shipment on the Tuesday and it arrived on Thursday. I believe this product to be very reasonably priced and I will undoubtedly be using their services whenever I need more Acai Berry supplements.

The Meaning of Love

2010-11-18T12:36:00.000-08:00

Love is a beautiful thing that we all want. Everyone always wants to have someone who they desire to chime in one love.
Unfortunately, many are difficult to make the opposite sex fall in love. For men in particular, this is the hardest hit because Men are required to have the initiative to initiate steps to make the opposite sex fall in love.
There is a secret about the process of falling in love that if you understand, you can be more effective to make the Women's Fall In Love to you.
LouAnne Brizendine, an expert on mental nerve more than 20 years studying brain circuits, said:
"Love is one of the Irrational behavior brain. The brain becomes * Not Logical * Literally Blind and will be the deficiencies of the Beloved. "
Helen Fisher, a scientist researching neurological romance and love on brain function, said:
"Love is the most terrible sensation around the world. People around the world would fall in love, they think for the sake of love, they dance for love, they talk about love, they live for love, they kill for love, and they die for love. "
Two sample sentence above brings us to one conclusion, love is very beautiful and blinding love The Lover shortcomings.
If a woman Love to you, all you whatever shortcomings it will not be seen by him. She'll love you with really.
Love is basically a form of strong emotion or feeling, which, according to Helen Fisher when the activities described are 3 parts in the human brain and the mixing of four chemicals in the brain that is: Dopamine, Seretonin, Estrogen and Testosterone THAT produces 3 Emotions that if combined would make one Falling in Love. Emotions are interested, Comfort, and Inner Relations.
In other words:
Interested Comfortable Inner = Fall In Love Relationships
Interested mean INTERESTED her to enter into the guy's life interesting.
Convenient means the woman BELIEVE to Open yourself to the man.
Inner relationship means a woman indifferent to the inner attachment to the man.
If one of the three components of the LOST, then love will not be formed. Let's see what will happen if we remove one of these components.
Interested in Comfort (without Inner Relations) = Ordinary Friend
This is what often happens, the woman was interested in and comfortable, but the man did not build a deeper inner connection to be able to make the women feel the bitter-bitter love to be able to fall in love. Be their friends.
Interested Inner Relationship (but not comfortable) = Fans While
It is also common. The Men and Women INTERESTED each other and feel a deep inner connection. But unfortunately the man DIRECT feel too confident to declare his love without making the woman COMFORTABLE and BELIEVE to get to know him more closely. The woman with the automatic will feel uncomfortable that eventually backed away from man.
Comfortable Inner Relationship (but not Interested) = Brother / Sister
Now that is funny: The Women are very comfortable and has a strong inner connection, but the woman HAS NOT Attracted by the man to become her lover. At the moment, the man declared his love, then the lady would say that they are better suited to be brother / sister only.
Therefore, the three blend emotion is vital to make a woman fall in love.
Once you know the FORMULA in love, you need to know how to make women INTERESTED, WITH INNER COMFORTABLE and have with you.

Set the Purpose of Life

2010-11-18T12:30:00.000-08:00

Written by: Anne Ahira
My Friends,
"Without goals, and plans to reach Them, you areThat sail like a ship with no destination "-
                               (Fritzhugh Dodson)
That is the metaphor for people who have no purpose in life.
Many people done the role, but do not know the way of life that wants as its target.
They realize their live is what is then done.
When something bad happens, they will argue fate did not favor him.
Not infrequently a person realize the purpose life in old age. Very unfortunate indeed.
Often people do not dare to make changesin his life. He just waited, and waited The changes ... until the end goal of his life is not achieved!
Actually, it does not matter if we have to changepurpose in life several times. The most important thing isevery time we have a purpose in life you wantachieved.
Actually, it does not matter if we have to changepurpose in life several times. The most important thing isevery time we have a purpose in life you wantachieved.
At least we know where we're going to run andwhat strategy should be taken.
4 Ways You Can Use To DefinePurpose of Life:
1. What exactly is your desire?

    Ask your conscience, what exactly
    Your desire for the next few years?

    Nothing wrong with your dream. You
    do not be ashamed to admit it, after all, not
    There is no charge should you spend to
    just dreaming. ;-)
2. Gather information.

    By collecting information, you
    can more easily achieve the desired goals.

    If there are other people who've managed to do
    you want, learn from them.
    Do what they do!
3. Do not be silent.

    Do something and that will continuously
    takes you to the dream life you want!
4. Upgrade your skill

    If there are ways that you do prove effective
    and closer to the goal to be achieved,
    then it would be nice if you're trying to
    improve the capability and increased speed
    performance for the purpose of your life more quickly achieved.
If all four of the above you do on an ongoingcontinuously without tired and bored, Insya-Allah you will obtain the desired life goals.
You are supposing is a 'sculptor' top picture of your own life. And a good sculptor will always have a 'planning' in advance to get the results best.
In this case, you could only be as big and as happy as your destinationspecify. Therefore, chisel yourself the best!

My Blog is My Money Field

2010-11-18T03:39:00.000-08:00

My blog is my money field. Off Course, is the money is yours? Or your blog is the field of my money? : Lol: * confused it .. no idea:?::!:
Well, whatever it is, this paper is still unfinished. Wait on the game yes. Want to sleep first: oops: have you read and practice READY!!!!......

My Blog is my Money Field
Ok, as I promised 1 month ago (what?!!) That this paper will be updated. The latest version is not far from the topic around my blog is my money field. You could have laughed at that argument. But, this is true. I am not a player MLM (Multi Level Marketing). I'm just a blogger who tries to seek sustenance through the media that called BLOG.
There are several things you should look in an effort to make your blog as a money field. Among them:
1.You should have a blog (yes off course .. are you should have fields?: Lol:)
2.After have a blog, be diligent to update the content or writing. Try not to copy-paste round of the article. Make it as unique as possible and have a specific topic.
3. Look to other blogs that match your interests. Leave a comment there; an appropriate and courteous manner. Do not forget to fill out the form with the address of your blog's URL.
4.For getting the idea of writing, you can look at Free Articles Directory.
5.Registered your blog to Google Webmaster Tools.
6.Submit to bookmarking sites like Digg, etc.

What are six steps above can guarantee your blog will be a field of money? Not yet buddy. Nothing is instant in this world (with the exception of instant noodles: P). You should develop your blog first. 6 ways above is a knowledge base to develop the blog and will gradually bring in visitors.
Having considered (usually marked by the increasing number of visitors, the blog has been lookups by google etc). You can go to the next stage. Namely:
1.Focus
2.Focus
3.Focus
4. And Focus....
See The point? The point is, you should focus on the content of your blog. Actually, the problem is not too jumbled. However, it would be better if you specify one of the main topics for your blog. We take the example, you select the topic of Business Online or on the procedure to get dollars through the internet.
So? Well, if you discuss is about how to get dollars in the online world, of course you will write how or producing programs of dollars on your blog. Right? Most of the programs on the internet, whether it's pay per click, paid review, sell links, paid to click, etc., they usually provide the affiliate or referral. Referral means, you will earn a profit if it invites others to join in the program you follow.
You also can play pay per click. The most famous, of course Google Adsense. There are many programs that you can actually follow and share. If I personally encourage you to learn and read the Adsense forum-ID. At the forum, you will find lots of tips and tricks regarding the procedure to make my blog is my money field.

One thing is for sure, no dozing term money. You have to work and learn and pray to change your blog into a money field.

BIDFUN

PAYING PTC SITES

2010-11-13T19:26:00.000-08:00

1. MARIHUANABUX

BEST PTC SITES (3)

2010-11-07T02:46:00.000-08:00

1. EROBUX

2. ASIABUX

3. IFBUX

4.INCREASEBUX

Tricks to Maximize Your Revenue From PTC Site

2010-10-31T04:00:00.000-07:00

In addition to the primary key of seriousness and discipline that you take a few minutes a day. Maybe some of the following tricks will help to increase your income.
Often Try to log in every day to log into the website program you follow, because there are some ads that are only valid for one day only, and do not miss even a single penny that you do not pick up in one day. It all depends on you, because it should be noted that there is no obligation to log in every day.
Joined many PTC programs at once While waiting period of 30 seconds to see the ad page provided by PTC, you can open a page of other ads from other PTC programs. If you can open from 5 PTC for 5 pages at once in one time why must open them one by one. Is not it also saves you time, but remember not to want to open because of the many programs at one time, ended up making slow your connection, which actually will make you lose a lot of time because lemotnya connection.
Use Browser beta To facilitate open PTC 5 pages at once, the authors suggest to use the browser's beta version, where you can open multiple pages in just a windows only. You can use Mozilla firefox, opera and google chrome as well as your browsing software.
Find Downline / referral As the author lay out just now that referrals have big share in your success in PTC. Each time you register on PTC sites must get a referral URL links and command that your friends or anyone to join this program by signing up through your referral link. Promote via email, mailing lists, forums, IM and of course you can write it on your blog.

The most effective way to get a referral is to write an article about this program on your blog so that people will register from the link posted on your blog. You can also buy referrals on PTC sites if you have money and lazy to seek referrals manually. But of course it will take some of your money. But no problem if you can smile after seeing the results. Is not for success requires sacrifice.
Upgrade your account function of this upgrade is to make you a premium member is where you will get a lot of ads in one day and in every click commission also found more than a regular member.

HOW TO EARN MONET FROM PTC SITES

2010-10-30T08:48:00.000-07:00

PTC sites are one of the major sources of revenue for people who earn money from Internet. PTC in full mean “Paid to Click”. PTC sites are sites that provide money for clicking Ads. Generally the money which these sites pay are from 0.02$ to 0.005$. But if you browse through the web, there are many people who earn hundreds of dollars a month using these sites. Many will be surprised how these people earn money just by clicking four or 5 Ads per day. This article provides information of how these people earn money from PTC sites like Neobux.

Getting Started with PTC sites

To get started with earning money from PTC sites, one should know that what ever you see in Internet is not true. There are hundreds of spam sites in Web which just take your time and don’t even pay a penny. So just wasting time in those sites is like wasting your time in Internet. There are only some few genuine sites in internet like Neobux, Onbux, ViewbestAds that pay. But it is not necessary that these will be paying always and may close any time. There is no control over these sites. They may disappear any time. So there should be some careful planning and thinking that should be thought before joining these sites.

Identifying the trusted PTC sites

Identify the best PTC sites that are in Internet. This is very difficult to find out if you are fresher in Web. Learn from the people who have already experienced them. Don’t believe in ads or banners. You can believe the payment proofs from paypal where you can see users do upload to their sites. Some of the genuine PTC sites are Neobux, Viewbestads which is an Indian PTC etc. We have shared a few in the site Money Trials where you can check them out.

Check the Minimum Payout

Check the minimum payout of these PTC sites and how they pay. Some sites pay through paypal, some pay through alertpay. An ideal PTC site is a site which pays minimum payout of 2 to 3$. Neobux has minimum payout as 3$.Similar are Buxjunction and Onbux. Join these sites as these sites have good number of reviews.

Think before Upgrading in PTC sites

Many people earn money from PTC sites only through referrals. The more are the referrals, the more is your chance to earn money. There are two types of referral system in PTC sites. They are

Rented Referrals
Direct Referrals

Rented Referrals are provided by site owner itself. According to my analysis, renting referrals without upgrading and with less number of direct referrals is useless. If you have good number of direct referrals, then think of rented referrals in PTC sites as they generate good revenue for you. Also while hiring rented referrals see who actually click ads. Some rented referrals never work.
Direct Referrals are people who joined under you with your referral link. If you are a good leader and have people who are ready to learn from you, then you can have a good number of followers. Having more direct referrals gives more chances of earning from PTC sites

Earning from PTC sites

Earning from PTC sites is not an easy task. These sites can be closed any time and you may lose your time and money. But people still believe in some genuine PTC sites like Neobux which are there from years. There are hundreds of people who have upgraded in Neobux. Upgrading in PTC sites is nothing but getting more money from referral clicking, from your ad clicking etc.

Sample Chain for PTC sites

Here is a sample way how PTC sites work for you
Suppose you have 20 direct referrals under you, see below how much you earn per month. Suppose the site pays 0.01$ per click
Per Day
You click 5 ads ———– You earn 0.05$ from your clicks
Your friends 20*5 You earn 1$ from them
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Total Earnings per day 1.05$ (this is only for 20 friends. Think if you have 200 direct referrals)
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This is how people earn money from PTC sites. Start using PTC sites like Neobux wisely and earn good money

BEST PTC SITES (2)

2010-10-19T00:28:00.000-07:00

IDR-CLICKIT

VIPCLIX

MONEYBUX

BNInvestmentsbux

BEST PTC SITES

2010-10-19T00:21:00.000-07:00

NEOBUX

ONBUX

DBCLIX

IENBUX

What is Neobux?

2010-09-03T08:43:00.000-07:00

What is PTC ?

PTC (Paid To Click) is where you get paid just by clicking (see) the ad, which payment will be sent directly to your account.

What is Neobux?

Neobux is one of the advertising service site (PTC) that was established in 2008, in which all the "clickers" have recognized that Neobux is the best PTC site in the world today among other PTC sites.Neobux allows advertisers to reach thousands of potential customers by displaying their ad, which will be paid by Neobux member by clicking (see) this ad for a predetermined amount of time (30 seconds). And payment will be credited with a predetermined amount of cash to members on Neobux account.You do not have to pay (free) to become a member Neobux and start earning money. So, LIST NOW and get free money through the site Neobux.

How exactly do I get paid?There are several types of membership which the member would be paid:
Standard Member:

Per click: $ 0010 (Per referral click: $ 0005)- the standard ads

Per click: $ 0015 (Per referral click: $ 0010) - an extended ad
Golden Member:

Per click: $ 0010 (Per referral click: $ 0010)- the standard ads

Per click: $ 0020 (Per referral click: $ 0020) - an extended ad

Neobux also has a classified advertisement in which the member Neobux will be paid $ 0005 for every click (no commissions from referral clicks).

Minimum Payout:The minimum amount the first payment request is $ 2, the minimum demand for the second payment is $ 3, the third is $ 4 and so on up to $ 10.This means that when the member reaches or exceeds this limit, the member may request payment.

The amount of time to process the payment:INSTANT - This means that after a member asked for payment, the member will receive it in just seconds DIRECT (without waiting for a long time) the money will be sent to the member account in accordance with the type of processor such member account.

So, Come and Join on Neobux

Below is my proof of payment for joining with Neobux (up to date):

A New Way to Achieve All Your Dreams

2010-08-24T10:45:00.000-07:00

Name something you want. It can be a weight-loss goal, a money goal, a sales quota, a new house, a relationship, etc. It's entirely up to you.
Since this book is about money, think about your money goals. How much more money are your seeking, anyway? A hundred dollars? Thousands? A million?
Now let me ask you a blunt question: Why don't you have it yet?
Why don't you have the thinner body, or more money, or whatever it is you said you wanted? Well?
Now let me tell you something shocking: The fault isn't with the economy, your parents, your spouse, your neighbors, your mayor, the president or anyone or anything outside of you. There is only one answer to my question of, "Why don't you have it yet?" And I'll tell you what it is in a minute.
Have you ever wondered why so many people have so much trouble getting what they truly want? Have you considered that there could be an easier way though life? Have you ever felt that life was just too much of a struggle? Most of us have, at one time or another, just felt that life was a royal pain. But the liberating truth is this - life doesn't have to be that way.
What's the secret to making life a joy? What's the secret to creating more money now? And what's the answer to why you haven't achieved your goals yet?
It's in your own mind.
No, not in your thoughts. Not in your conscious mind. The roadblock is deeper. It's where you rarely look. It's in your unconscious. In short, if there is something you are trying to achieve - you name it - and you aren't achieving it, chances are your unconscious holds some contradictory intentions for you. Said another way, you want something and it doesn't.
If you are typical, you are constantly giving yourself contradictory instructions - like "I want to lose weight" and "I want that luscious piece of pie." Notice anything odd about them?
Those statements are going in different directions. After years of such frustrating and contradictory messages, your unconscious gives up and starts to disregard what you consciously want.
In other words, you canceled out your own request. You said, "I want money," but right after that you said (or thought), "I don't deserve it" or "Money never comes to me" or some other similar limiting belief. As a result, you usually didn't get what you said you wanted!
But I have good news for you. All that is about to end.
An Introduction To Cybernetic Transposition
I define "Cybernetic Transposition" as: Putting yourself consciously in charge by creating effective communication between your conscious and unconscious minds, by consciously transposing successes from any part of your life into other ones where you consciously want to produce success, resolving self-defeating unconscious habit patterns into ones that support you and by creating effective conscious communication with the part of your that knows what's right for you.
Where did I get the two words that make up the term?
Cybernetics is a term created by the incredibly brilliant Norbert Wiener who developed the discipline and who I used to see wandering the halls of MIT. Cybernetics derives from the Greek word for "steersman" or the person in control.
In a very real sense, our unconscious mind acts as our massively powerful, massively parallel computer comprised of about 100 billion tiny computers called neurons. Usually, our conscious minds are pretty much irrelevant to the functioning of our unconscious.

I'll be teaching you to change that, to bring your conscious mind into the loop so it, in a sense, becomes the steersman.
So the first part of the definition is helping people to be more human rather than acting like machines that operate almost totally unconsciously, out of conscious control.
Transposition is defined as the process of interchanging. In our case, we are taking a memory of success in one aspect of life or in the same aspect at a different time in life and transposing it to create success in a different aspect and/or time.
Now that you have been introduced to the name of the process, let's move on to discovering how to use it to manifest your highest dreams.
Ready?
Three Steps To More Cash
You're about to learn how a tried and tested three step process can transform your world and bring you all the riches you've ever imagined. I've proven this method will work by testing it on 50,000 people. Now you're going to prove it will work for you.
First, let me introduce you to the basic three steps:
1. Create a Target that defines what you want, one that is clearly understood by all aspects of your un-conscious mind.
Think of the bull's eye of an archery target with its concentric circles enclosing a central red circle. Your unconscious mind needs something as clear as that circle, a target that indicates exactly what you want.
2. Prioritize your Target: Flag it so that you will remain unconsciously focused on it while you get on with your normal activities.
Imagine a large crows of people, all dressed alike in gray. Now picture one of them holding up your highly graphic bulls' eye target with the bright red center. Chances are, the target is what will catch your eye. That's what happens in your unconscious mind when you have appropriately prioritized your target.
3. Resolve any self-defeating un-conscious habit patterns that can prevent you from achieving your target.
Your unconscious habits govern what you normally do in a situation. The most efficient way to go through life is to do a lot of things on automatic - except when those automatic habit patterns get in the way. In other words, most people have unconscious mechanisms that sabotage their desire to hit the target. When you clear those, you are free to hit the mark.
One Last Thing
You don't have to believe this is going to work. You probably have your doubts. You probably want to raise a ton of money fast but are highly suspicious that this method will work for you. Well, I've taught my seminar to 50,000 people. Even the ones who didn't believe this would work still got results.
The truth is this:
1. If you have a modest goal or target, you can use the Basic three steps we've been talking about to achieve it.
2. If you have what feels like an "Impossible" desire, you can use the Super Achievement process to achieve it.
Either way, your results are just waiting for you!

How to Create Complete & Perfect Freedom

2010-08-24T10:42:00.001-07:00

By : Dr. Robert Anthony

Imagine doing what you want, when you want, with whom you want, where you want, for as long as you want, without ever having to answer to anyone…

Let me ask you a question.

How would you know if you were "rich"?

That may seem like a stupid question. You would probably reply, "I would know if I was rich if I had no bills, or I had a lot of money in the bank, or had income producing investments or business, or I could buy whatever I want without having to go into debt".

What Are True Riches?

If you gave any of the above answers you would be partially correct. Most people perceive wealth or riches as the ability to be financially secure. However, true riches offer an even greater benefit than financial security A person who is truly rich knows they are truly rich when they have achieved the most valuable asset of all: PERSONAL FREEDOM!

This is true wealth -- to have complete FREEDOM to live life on YOUR terms.

Focus on What You Want to Attract

When I did not understand the principle of personal freedom, I focused on money. I wanted money, and I wanted lots of it! That was my goal. And because we get what we focus on, I attracted more money.

But then one day I realized that what I really wanted was the freedom to live life on my terms. First, it's important to know when people see how I live and conduct my business, they often say that, "It's easy for you, you earn a lot of money, you're famous, you've got a huge demand for your books, training programs, etc.” But they miss the point. I purposely designed my life this way when I had no money.

This was my dream. This was my intention.

Focus on Having Personal Freedom

Living this way is the basis of what I teach in my books, audio programs, seminars and personal counseling. What you get in life is determined by what you focus on and the actions you take.

In other words, you get the outcome of personal freedom by focusing on it and practicing it. It is both the cause and the effect or the outcome.

I choose freedom to do what I like, when I like, where I like, with whom I like in both my personal life and in my business.

For example, I do not carry a mobile phone with me unless I am traveling. When I am at home, which is ninety percent of the time, I don't carry one with me. My reasoning is that I am just not that important that I must annoy everyone who comes into contact with me by constantly and incessantly talking on the phone.

If you feel you have to carry a mobile phone with you everywhere and answer every call, you are not free -- you are a prisoner.
Create Your Life By Design

In addition to not carrying a mobile phone with me, I do not take any unscheduled phone calls. Even my personal coaching clients who pay me tens of thousands of dollars must make advance appointments to talk with me on the phone - and those calls are kept to a minimum because I prefer getting emails.

As a result, today, I work only with people I enjoy working with.
No exceptions. If I have a troublesome client, I fire them!

My Freedom Makes Me Truly Rich

I live pretty much as I choose. If I want to take a day off to go out to the races, watch the horses run and have a bet, I do. If I want to travel anywhere, I do. If I want to be with someone, dine anywhere or go when I want, whenever I want, I do.

My peace of mind and my freedom to live my life on my terms is why I am truly rich. Yet, I want to quickly emphasize, this has nothing to do with the amount of money I earn. This just helps to support my lifestyle of freedom.
But here is the point: I created this at a time when I could not afford it. I didn't wait until I had to money to do it. It was my core desire. I believe anyone can live this way if they choose. People tell me that because of their circumstances it is not possible for them to do this. I tell them "horse pucky.” You can do anything you want if you set your intention and follow through.

This is true wealth. You can have it your way regardless of what you do for a living, regardless of the business you're in, where you live, your current income, wealth or lack thereof, regardless of any variable you can possibly name. If you will deliberately get in ALIGNMENT with creating freedom, YOU - I mean: YOU - can have it!

Get in Alignment with Your Desire to be Free

Your mission - should you choose to accept it - is to get in total ALIGNMENT spiritually, mentally, emotionally, strategically and behaviorally with a lifestyle of personal freedom, so you can enjoy the results of you wealth. This is the position you want to get into, as quickly as possible.

The 5 Rules of Happiness

2010-08-24T10:38:00.001-07:00

By : Burt Goldman

You know when you're happy, and certainly no one has to tell you when you're sad. But what is it that makes a person happy?

It is important to realize that what makes you happy might depress another person. There are people, because of guilt, a feeling they do not deserve what they have, or a feeling they will lose what they have that makes them unhappy when they should be happy.

Possessions are a poor measure of happiness. Possessions are subjective and relative to the individual and the individual's viewpoint. Instead, we will use a philosophy as an example.

This philosophy is about enjoying things you like, avoiding or changing things you do not like, and accepting what you cannot avoid or change by the skillful use of your viewpoint. The use of this philosophy, as embodied in the five rules, will allow you to test many problem areas in your life and find solutions. With this philosophy, you will be well on your way on your pursuit of happiness.

Rule Number One: If You Like a Thing, Enjoy It.

Now that seems outrageously simple. At first you might say, "That's ridiculous, of course if I like something I'm going to enjoy it." But when you stop to think about it you'll probably agree that there are many things in life that we like but don't enjoy. The reasons we don't enjoy things we like are (a) guilt, and (b) fear. You will not enjoy something you like if you feel guilty after having done the thing, or if you are fearful of the consequences of doing it.

Rule Number Two: If You Don't Like a Thing, Avoid It.

The second rule seems simple enough, but reflect for a moment on how many people are involved with things they do not like — a job, a person, a vehicle, a type of food, any one of a thousand things — and for some reason they don't avoid those things. "Well, I can't avoid it. I have to work there because I need the money." Or, "I have to be involved with this person for many valid reasons." How many justifications can you think of for not avoiding the things you do not like to do?

Rule Number Three: If You Don't Like a Thing, and You Cannot Avoid It, Change It.

Here again, the answer is simple: change it. But just as in avoidance we rationalize that we need something about it — the money, the time, the security — something is holding you to that particular thing if you don't like it, cannot avoid it, won't change it, but are still involved with it.

Rule Number Four: If You Don't Like a Thing, Cannot Avoid It, and Cannot or will Not Change It, Accept It.

Acceptance — now there is a catch. How can you accept something you don't like? How in the world do you accept something that is 'unacceptable'? How do you accept a situation that you're not happy with? How do you accept a person that you're not happy with? Well, you really don't have to accept anything; you can, of course, be unhappy. If you don't like it, won't change it, cannot avoid it, and will not accept it, I guarantee that you will be unhappy. There are, however, five rules to the secret of happiness, and within the fifth lies the key.

Rule Number Five: You Accept a Thing By Changing Your Attitude Towards It.

You are the result of your viewpoints and attitudes. Everything is relative to the person experiencing it. There are no absolutes — nothing is good, nothing bad, except as it relates to you. Nor is life good or bad. Life simply is. You change those things you wish by changing your viewpoint about them.

How easy!
How difficult!

Your attitudes and viewpoints are all part of your mind and once you develop the power of self mind control you will be the master of your own attitudes and viewpoints. Using these five rules you'll soon find yourself on the right path on the pursuit of happiness. You'll realize why people are unhappy. Eventually it will become automatic, and you'll find happiness a predominant state of mind. Once you realize the ease of acquiring this emotion, you develop an entirely new scale of highs and lows.

Unremitting happiness, of course, is not a possible or desirable state. According to the principle of rhythm, there is always an inflow and outflow, an ebb tide and a flood tide. You'll always have highs and lows — there's no way to avoid that. However, your highs will be higher and your lows will be higher. You'll then find that what is a happy state for you might be a state of depression for someone unaware of the Five Rules of Happiness.

Why Money Can't Buy Happiness

2010-08-24T10:36:00.000-07:00

By : Jonah Lehrer

Money is surprisingly bad at making us happy. Once we escape the trap of poverty, levels of wealth have an extremely modest impact on levels of happiness, especially in developed countries.

Even worse, it appears that the richest nation in history -- 21st century America -- is slowly getting less pleased with life. (Or as the economists behind this recent analysis concluded: "In the United States, the [psychological] well-being of successive birth-cohorts has gradually fallen through time.")

Needless to say, this data contradicts one of the central assumptions of modern society, which is that more money equals more pleasure. That's why we work hard, fret about the stock market and save up for that expensive dinner/watch/phone/car/condo. We've been led to believe that dollars are delight in a fungible form.

But the statistical disconnect between money and happiness raises a fascinating question: Why doesn't money make us happy?

One intriguing answer comes from a new study by psychologists at the University of Liege, published in Psychological Science. The scientists explore the "experience-stretching hypothesis," an idea first proposed by Daniel Gilbert. He explains "experience-stretching" with the following anecdote:

I've played the guitar for years, and I get very little pleasure from executing an endless repetition of three-chord blues. But when I first learned to play as a teenager, I would sit upstairs in my bedroom happily strumming those three chords until my parents banged on the ceiling… Doesn't it seem reasonable to invoke the experience-stretching hypothesis and say that an experience that once brought me pleasure no longer does? A man who is given a drink of water after being lost in the Mojave Desert may at that moment rate his happiness as eight. A year later, the same drink might induce him to feel no better than a two.

What does experience-stretching have to do with money and happiness? The Liege psychologists propose that, because money allows us to enjoy the best things in life -- we can stay at expensive hotels and eat exquisite sushi and buy the nicest gadgets -- we actually decrease our ability to enjoy the mundane joys of everyday life. (Their list of such pleasures includes "sunny days, cold beers, and chocolate bars".) And since most of our joys are mundane – we can't sleep at the Ritz every night – our ability to splurge actually backfires. We try to treat ourselves, but we end up spoiling ourselves.

The study itself is straightforward. The psychologists gathered 351 adult employees of the University of Liege, from custodial staff to senior administrators, for an online survey. (I should note that it remains unclear whether happiness and other aspects of well-being can be meaningfully measured with a multiple choice test. So caveats apply.)

The scientists primed the subjects by showing them a stack of Euro bills before asking them a bunch of questions which attempted to capture their "savoring ability." Here's how the savoring test worked:

Participants are asked to imagine finishing an important task (contentment), spending a romantic weekend away (joy), or discovering an amazing waterfall while hiking (awe). Each scenario is followed by eight possible reactions, including the four savoring strategies referred to in the introduction (i.e., displaying positive emotions, staying present, anticipating or reminiscing about the event, and telling other people about the experience). Participants are required to select the response or responses that best characterize what their typical behavior in each situation would be, and receive 1 point for each savoring strategy selected.

Interestingly, the scientists found that people in the wealth condition -- they'd been primed with all those Euros – had significantly lower savoring scores. This suggests that simply looking at money makes us less interested in relishing the minor pleasures of life. Furthermore, subjects who made more money in real life -- the scientists asked all subjects for their monthly income -- scored significantly lower on the savoring test.

A subsequent experiment duplicated this effect among Canadian students, who spent less time savoring a chocolate bar after being shown a picture of Canadian dollars. The psychologists end on a bleak note:

Taken together, our findings provide evidence for the provocative notion that having access to the best things in life may actually undermine one's ability to reap enjoyment from life's small pleasures.

Our research demonstrates that a simple reminder of wealth produces the same deleterious effects as actual wealth on an individual's ability to savor, suggesting that perceived access to pleasurable experiences may be sufficient to impair everyday savoring. In other words, one need not actually visit the pyramids of Egypt or spend a week at the legendary Banff spas in Canada for one's savoring ability to be impaired—simply knowing that these peak experiences are readily available may increase one's tendency to take the small pleasures of daily life for granted.

This makes me think of the Amish. From a certain perspective, the Amish live without a lot of the stuff most of us consider essential. They don't use cars, reject the Internet, avoid the mall, and prefer a quiet permanence to hefty bank accounts. The end result, however, is a happiness boom. When asked to rate their life satisfaction on a scale of 1 to 10, the Amish are as satisfied with their lives as members of the Forbes 400.

There are, of course, many ways to explain the contentment of the Amish. (The community has strong ties, plenty of religious faith and stable families, all of which reliably correlate with high levels of well-being.) But I can't help wonder if part of their happiness is related to experience-stretching. They don't fret about getting the latest iPhone, or eating at the posh new restaurant, or buying the au courant handbag. The end result, perhaps, is that the Amish are better able to enjoy what really matters, which is all the stuff money can't buy.

How I can earn $ 30.00 plus per day?

2010-08-20T08:56:00.000-07:00

Join: Neobux.com

Before you judge this strategy is to understand that you are not earning $ 30.00 plus per day as soon as you start, at first it takes only a few cents a day, but if you are a committed person and develop your account will be a smooth path to a lucrative income. If we do not invest money that will take time to start earning big money, if you invest the money, obviously, to win much faster, but the investment is not a requirement if you are willing to take some time to win gradually.

I can use a service-based Internet advertising called Neobux as described and I am currently earning $ 35.00 to $ 38.00 USD per day, Neobux pay its members for clicking ads advertisers and everybody gets a slice of the pie, the administrative cut to advertisers get traffic and people join their programs, but important, you get paid to click and instantly see the ads.

The main element to make money through Neobux is referrals. If you do not have references to make money very slowly, it's that simple. You will earn about $ 15 a year if we have no reference to what might be better to be given two options, the first and easiest is to rent references, I'll go into more detail later in the rental of reference, second option is to purchase direct references as I am now, in short, when someone joins Neobux by clicking on the banner, the account will be registered under that account people, when this happens, the person will receive some money flag each time you click on an advertisement, which also receive 100% of their income to click ads by registering under another person who has nothing to lose.

Renting directly from Neobux referrals is an easy option, but if you jump the gun you might find that renting them is not so great, so I'd like to share this strategy with you so you will have a better chance to earn money instead of breaking even or even potential loss of revenue, it is possible, but if you read this document carefully all. I will point out the main things that will help you make good money. The references are real and the cost of 28 cents per month each, some will be active and others not. Before you rent references should be familiar with the terms of the services part of 3.7, the clicks you make must be in accordance with the server time and if you do not click any ads today are not assigned a reference to the morning clicks.

If you find that one or more of your referrals becomes inactive leased that have the ability to recycle and get a new one as a replacement, recycling rented a referral will cost cents to $ 0.08, but the replacement referral clicked at least 10 items in the last five days so the odds are in your favor that they will remain active long enough for you to get your 8 cents again, and much more. It may seem like much, but it is certainly worthwhile. If not recycling inactive referrals will lose money and will surely not want that to happen.

Standard discount rental members: Each member will have a discount excellent standard in her / two first properties. Instead of paying $ 0.30 per referral per month, standard members will pay only $ 0.25 the first two times they rent.

Upon reaching 80 cents per click you will have the option of renting their first three references. This is where most people make a big mistake. It takes about 20 days to win the first 80 cents on your own, if you are unlucky and lose a lot of bonus announcements during the day or night. You are guaranteed a minimum of four days worth of ads at least $ 0.01 each, people are so eager to buy their referrals in the first place they just get them as soon as your account reaches $ 0.80 to is the minimum amount you can transfer your balance to buy rental references. When people do this very often do not realize that they do not have enough money to support their newly rented referrals and references are eventually removed because they can not afford to pay for another month. Ideally, prior rental references must earn at least $ 1.50 per click on their ads and then transfer your balance to rent. In this way you have an additional $ 0.25 for each referral and will be easily able to recycle if they start to go dormant or pay to maintain them for a month when his last days decreases. It will take a while to get $ 1.50 on its own, but this way you will be able to keep their references, and exchange of active and inactive without the fear that you will not be able to pay for them for a month.

Neobux has a fantastic feature called Autopay, is a great tool where if you've allowed and a reference click on one or more ads, referral is automatically paid for another day but at a slower rate that saves you 10% every day you click. As soon as you rent your first three references must enable Autopay, the link can be found at the top of the page to rent referrals. A reference costs 28 cents a month to maintain. Instead of paying the transfer of each month, which pay for themselves all the time which allowed Autopay and click on the classified ads you'll get a discount of 10% which adds up to a lot of money when have a lot of references.

Charge too soon is a huge mistake for people using Neobux. When you request a payment, the money is transferred instantly into your AlertPay / PayPal account. In order to see if it is true Neobux legitimate (But it is), many people earn $ 2.00 per click, and then cash out is a complete waste of time. Now you have two dollars in your AlertPay / PayPal account. Those Two U.S. dollars should have been put to rent more referrals or the expansion of its first package of 90 days to maximize their profits. With this strategy will save $ 1.50 in the balance of your money before you rent your first 3 referrals. Keep references to rent in increments of three (you can rent for more increases later as his references make you more money) and continue until you have 500 references. This will take some time, but bear with it because it is highly profitable in the way.

The Art of Complimenting Woman

2010-08-14T06:01:00.000-07:00

Ha? What is this?
The Art of Complimenting Woman?
Do not we have to "Keep VALUE" front womanwith NOT PRAISE HIM? Is not if a woman is praised,then he will be a BIG HEAD and we assumeSlut? Is not praise it the old way that is notfair and * conflicts * with the way EMOTION work?
In the book "how to win friends and influencepeople "written by Dale Carnegie said that:
"The needs and requirements of the most sought BASICmany people in her social is PRAISE "
Right? All the people WANT, FIND LOVE and PRAISE,Even people who claim to NOT want to be praised evenPRAISE hopes by saying he "did not wantcommended ".
LIKE EVERYONE complimented.
Well if everyone likes praised INCLUDING WOMEN,why do not we praise them?
But his praise is not praise that makes usseem to be * very * need or NEEDY.
Therefore, we MUST first know which PRAISE
that REDUCE VALUE, and which ones PRAISE can
increase the VALUE ...
If you have all praised the women but theirrespond to mediocre or even TURN-OFF,mean your praise is WRONG praise.

Then How the RIGHT?
It is a concept that I gave the name "The Artof complimenting Woman ".
FIRST THING you should notice is BRAINyou can feel the energy of a negative or positiveBRAIN others who are communicating with you.In other words, your suspicions could DIRECTfeel if you catch from people NEGATIVE EMOTIONSothers who talk with you via BODYLANGUAGE, facial expression and intonation of his voice.
Women's 10x more sensitive in reading body languageand EMOTIONS. Therefore, women can FEELif your compliment is praise or compliments HONESTwho WANT to get something from him.
Examples of praise WANT to get something:
Men: You're really pretty cool ... [With a smiling faceand waiting for a reply from the woman]
Woman: Thanks ... [Give answers because they FEELawaited the answer]
Viewed from the example above, the man said "you are beautifulreally deh "and then gave a smile and faceWAITING for the woman answers ... it signifies the MaleGETTING COMPLIMENTS to give gratitudefrom the Women and TRY to make the woman becomesLIKE with the man.
That * SIGNS * that the man giving praise forGETTING something, namely a sense of gratitude from theThe woman, who he thought was a "way" to makeLIKE a woman with him.
But not so, It's called PRAISE takes charge.
For those of you who are working, try to notice whenYour boss came and chatted with theemployees, see who's the Boss employee PRAISE need to pay ...
Well then how about an HONEST PRAISE?
Example 1:
You: You're pretty cool ... [with a serious face, halfsmile and NOT expect answers nothing]
And without waiting for an answer, straight talk aboutMore ...
Example 2:
Girl: Would you please grab the file please ...
You: [help the woman] is the file ... [half-smile andwithout the NEED to go straight from the word thanks from Female]
Example 3:
The situation was dinner
Girl: [spoon fell] yah spoon fall ...
You: [take a spoon and give it to the woman]This ... careful next time [serious face, half smilesand NOT expect the words to thank and directtalk about something else]
See a difference?
Things that seem the same but VERY-VERY DIFFERENT.
If you give an honest compliment, then the responseto be provided is RESPECT for WomenThat is called BEING A Gentlemen. If youPRAISE want, GUARDING, or loved HELPINGLadies, DO NO NEED that his gratitudeor wanted something from him. Be a PE-Mujiwith a sincere compliment without desire reversedyour praise.
Well then what if you PRAISE with HONESTbut the response of women "assume" you are NOT PRAISEwith HONEST and just wanted something from him?
Example 1:
You: You're beautiful today ... [Honest]Girl: Yeah ... already many are saying anyway, anyways I'vehave a guy who often praise me ... [Take your complimentas a tool for making the same she LIKE you]
Example 2: This happened by one of my best friend ... that time we werebe in a club and a woman who * is not too* looks beautiful standing alone and my best friend sayhello:
A: eh, are you longer own? It is Better we chat together.....[This honest invitation from my friend who just wants to be bersosialand does not intend to show love for the woman.]
Girl: oh that? Are you want to DANCE? Yes there already! PLEASE do it your OWN! [The woman thinks that's just my friend Preamble which ends want to invites the girl DANCE]
Example 3:
You: I really like you ... cool ... [honest]
Girl: Yes! Whatever lah...!
[Become a big headache because praised and dismissed the praise of honest]
Well then what we MUST do when things like this happen?
Do something called PUSH-pull
Examples of cases back and forth according to the above:
Example 1:
You: You're beautiful today ... [honest]
Girl: Yes already many are saying, anyways I've had a guy whoI often praise kok ... [consider you as a compliment tools to make the same she LIKE you]
>> YOU: Oh nice cool ... so I don't need to praise you again!
Example 2:
A: uh, whether you're alone? we better talk
[This honest invitation from my friend who justwant bersosial only and do not intend to showliking to the woman.]
Girl: oh that? Do you want to DANCE? Yes there already! PLEASE do it your OWN! [The woman thinks that's just my friend Preamble which ends want to invites the girlDANCE]
>> A: lho? you THINK i just want to DANCE with you?
Girl: [nervous and embarrassed] mmm ... no!
A: yes already, good you finally realize.. I just want to chat ... by the way, what is your name?
--- The rest can be no doubt anymore ---
Example 3:
You: I really like it you ... cool ... [honest]
Girl: yea! Whatever la! [Become a big headache becausepraised and dismissed the praise of honest]
>> YOU: hahaha apparently ... I pull my greeting deh ...
PUSH-pull clay how to work?
You Praising> Respondnya Good> Forward Praising
You Praising> Respondnya bitchy> Give the "little"Punishment with "a little" Mocked
That is BASIC from "The Art of complimentingWoman, "now let us discuss in more depth.
Remember activating Broca's region and RectacularExisting system in the human brain? The point is not to do somethingby CONSTANT, but always had to change and the TAK changeUNPREDICTABLE.
So when giving a compliment, do this:
Praise, praise, praise, ridicule, ridicule, praise, ridicule, praise, praise,taunted, jeered etc.
Do PRAISE continuously ... and at the praise,make sure you PRAISE QUALITY.
What kind of a compliment of quality?
We will discuss the time on the other.
Then when you give a little derision butANGRY him what to do? Let's see:

Was the woman really ANGRY?
Or * just * give to your TEST?
If he's REALLY mad, then you are WRONGtaunting him. Ridicule that I do not mean * insult *but it is a known Tools* Flirt *
Flirting is * taunts * which can growCHEMISTRY.
Then How can I flirt with the truth?
We discuss the time on the other.

Make Money from Blog, Is it Easy?

2010-08-13T08:17:00.000-07:00

"Brother, if there are Internet programs that generate the most easy and fast money?" "Among the Google Adsense, Chitika, Amazon, whichever is easier to make money?"
Frankly, I am always Sad to see the mindset that considers misleading make money from blogs is easy. Live to make the blog, the content (either original or copy-paste the results), advertise here and there and finished. Money must be in hand.
But was it so?
We're sorry, unfortunately, make money from blogs is not easy.
True, you can still make money via blog to copy-paste and SEO. True, you can still call yourself "$ 1000 Bloggers" with black hat techniques. But I personally believe, at some point, at some point, you blog readers will be embarrassed to visit your blog again because there is no benefit he can get.
In my opinion, misleading way of thinking which assumes that make money via blogs is easy (because the live patch-ad patch) will never succeed at least two reasons.
First, when we were just stuffing your blog with ads everywhere, we are actually unwittingly destroy the reputation of our own blogs. Our blog readers will know that in the end we really just want to make money quickly through our blog. As a result, our blog readers would immediately feel lazy to visit our blog again.
Second, when we fill the blog with ads everywhere and think that was his way of making money through blogs, soon we will meet with disappointment because we dream of money just does not have on hand. Perhaps at first we were making money. But it will not take long. Because really, not so the correct way to make money through blogs.
However, also make money via blogs does not mean something is not possible. Already ample evidence that bloggers produce extraordinary amounts of money through their blogs. What distinguishes them is the correct mindset about how to make money via blogs.
Then how do I make money via blog properly?
Instead of monetization program was preoccupied with what is most easy and quick to make money, it would be better if you're busy thinking about how you can provide the greatest benefit to the readers of your blog. Make your blog really gave the benefit and required by the readers of your blog. Make your blog into a blog reference. Be the authority bloggers to your chosen niche.
Yes, blogs by niche and that's good content that will ultimately produce the largest cash purse in your pocket. It's not a matter of choice monetization program.
Just a note, even the 10 most popular blogs (by Technorati) with extraordinary revenues are blogs with their own unique niche (and certainly not just a blog copy-paste the ad code).
If there's time, there is no harm in looking and studying the 10 most popular blogs below:
1. Huffington Post (Public and Politics) 2. TechCrunch (Web and News) 3. Gizmodo (Gadgets) 4. Engadget (Gadget) 5. BoingBoing (General and News-Gazette ODD) 6. Lifehacker (Productivity) 7. Ars Technica (Technology News) 8. ICanHasCheezburger (Cute Cats Photographs) 9. ReadWriteWeb (Web News and Trends) 10. Mashable (Social Networking News)
If we look more carefully, they will be clearly seen that almost all the blogs above have unique content and exceptional helpful. "Content is still the king." The ten most popular blogs are producing extraordinary amounts of money because the first gives the greatest benefit to their readers. Not the opposite.
Then hard would it to be the authority blogger?
Yes. Because that's not all bloggers can make money (in the amount outstanding). A Darren Rowse (ProBlogger.net owner) must arrange time desperately to manage their blogs during the first few years on the sidelines of the three types of part-time job, then still have lived. A Michael Arrington (TechCrunch.com owner) had to stay up until 4 am almost every day just to get exclusive news latest technologies that have not been posted on another blog. A Yaro Starak (EntrepreneurJourney.com owner) must give up his studies because the more immersed in the activity of blogging and focus on providing the best content for their blog readers.
Make money from blog really is not easy. Weight instead.
But if you already have the right mindset that it takes effort to make money via blogs, tenacious, patient, courageous and persistent to achieve it, make money via blogs is not necessarily completely impossible.
The key: you must give the greatest benefit to your blog reader first, create your blog and become a credible authority in the niche you choose, and only then do whatever monetization as you want.
What do you think?
You may not agree with my opinion you know. It's great if you want to share their opinions with me here. :)

Master your Emotional Intelligence!

2010-08-12T07:49:00.000-07:00

"Anyone can be angry. Anger is easy. However, angry at the right people, with the appropriate level, at the time appropriate, for the right purpose, and with cheese, it is not easy. " - Aristotle, The Nicomachean Ethics.
Able to master emotions, often those underestimate the problem. In fact, intelligence alone is not delivers enough person reaches success.
Rather, good emotional control becomes an important factor determining success in one's life.
Emotional intelligence is an illustration mentality of someone who is smart in analyze, plan and solve problems, ranging from mild to complex.
With this intelligence, one can understand, recognize, and select their qualities as human beings. People who have emotional intelligence can understand others well and make decisions wisely.
Moreover, this intelligence-related closely to how a person can applying what she learned about happiness, love and interacting with others.
He also knows his life purpose, and will responsible for all matters happened in her life as evidence high emotional intelligence owned.
More focused on emotional intelligence achieving a successful life * Does not look *.
Success can be achieved when someone could make a deal involving emotions, feelings and interaction with others.
Evidently, the achievement of success in material does not guarantee satisfaction someone.
In 1990, Emotional Intelligence (which also known as the "EQ"), introduced through the world market.
Stated that a person's ability to handle and use emotions appropriately in any form interaction is more needed than intelligence (IQ) of a person.
Now, let's see, how emotions can change all the limitations become extraordinary things ....
A rich millionaire in America States, Donald Trump, is an example conscientious in this regard. In the year 1980 until 1990, known as Trump enough real estate tycoon successful, with personal wealth estimated at one billion U.S. dollars.
Two books were written at the height of success career, namely "The Art of the Deal and Surviving at the Top ". But the road through which Trump did not always smooth ...
You remember the depression that hit the world at the end of the year 1990? At that time property stock prices tumbled even participate drastically. Until the time last night, Trump's life becomes very opposite.
Trump is highly dependent on This should bear the business property loans totaling 900 million U.S. Dollars! Even the World Bank has predicted bankruptcy.
Some of his friends who suffered the fate Similar thinking that this is the end their lives, to really end her life by way of suicide self.
Here the emotional intelligence Trump really tested. How not when she expects sympathy from former his wife, he actually asked to provide all remaining property in lieu of loss of their divorce.
People who are regarded as a friend Nearby went away granted. Great cause support for Trump to despair and give up on life. However it did not commit.
Trump precisely this view that opportunity to work and change circumstances. Although he was financially had lost everything, but there "Intangible assets" that remain owned.
Yes, Trump has the experience and strong business understanding, which is far more precious than all his property which ever!
What happens next?
Fantastic, six months later Trump 've managed to make a deal largest in the history of business.
Three years later, Trump could earn a profit of U.S. $ 3 Billion. He also managed to write his latest book which was given back Search for "The Art of The Comeback."
In this book tells Trump what happened to her bankruptcy it makes it more wisely, strong and focused than ever before.
Indeed, he thinks, if only disaster It does not happen, then he would not ever know his true friends and not will make it more rich than previously. Incredible is not it? :-)
Emotional intelligence gives a person determination to rise from failure, also bring strength to the someone to stand up fear.
Not the same way as intelligence brain or IQ, emotional intelligence present on every person & can be developed.
Here are some tips on how to honed emotional intelligence:
1. Always live with courage.

    Exercise and dare to try new things will provide a variety of experiences and
    open mind with a variety of other possibilities in life.
2. Always responsible for everything.

    This will be a way to be gain the trust of others and not easy to control us
    surrender. "Being accountable is being dependable "
3. Dare to come out of your comfort zone.

    Trying to get out of your comfort zone will allows us to explore many pp.
4. Recognizing the fear and try to to deal with it.

    Doing this will build a sense of confident and able to guarantee
    there is definitely something that all solution.
5. Be humble.

    Willing to admit mistakes in life. it can improve self-esteem us.
So, Overcome your emotional intelligence
Because emotions are one of the important factors that could You control the route to success and also enjoy a colorful life. :-)

Quality of Life: Nikon Coolpix P6000

2010-08-12T05:53:00.000-07:00

Quality of Life: Nikon Coolpix P6000

Nikon Coolpix P6000

2010-08-12T05:50:00.000-07:00

Friends are fun for those who like to display photographs online.
Fever during the Facebook and other social networking sites today, would have liked to normal if each of its members display photos on their account. Nature of "narcissistic" everyone seems to make the digital camera market remains crowded at any time. Now, for the love traveling, it might be enamored with the series semiprofessional from Nikon this time, the COOLPIX P6000. This is one of the few digital cameras that includes a facility to mark the GPS location where the photo was found. Quite interesting is not it?
Although classified as a class of compact, design P6000 with about 4 cm thick and weighs ¼ kg is not very practical. However, remained steady grip makes this camera well grasped by one hand. This great little size that's understandable considering the number of promoted P6000 features, including a holder for an external flash (hot shoe), a dial button to adjust the typical settings for photography, and five function buttons / menu on the left. In addition, there is still the same as the companion screen viewfinder LCD 2.7 ". Viewfinder is presumably reserved for those who still like activity through the viewing window or viewfinder to save battery by disabling the LCD.

To support the needs of those who already understand the photography, the P6000 which uses the CCD sensor with 13.5 total mega pixels resolution was given quite a lot of features, ranging from automatic mode to shoot PASM option for manual settings. The camera also provides a menu in the Indonesian language provides 48 MB of internal memory which can contain two RAW format images or seven high-resolution JPEG images. To prevent blurred images caused by turbulence, as usual puts Nikon Vibration Reduction function (VR), which is quite useful especially in low lighting conditions.

However, please note that the VR feature will not be effective for photographing moving objects. Ability which is only 4x optical zoom is also not effective for long-distance shooting. Therefore, can we call that this camera is a semipro model of responsibility.
Among a series of feature that superior, maybe which makes P6000 looks interesting is the GPS facility to know the position of an object on this earth. But make no mistake, the GPS feature not here to guide you, such as GPS devices generally, but rather is intended to mark the image so that can know the location where the photo was taken. To facilitate this, Nikon's Picture Bank functions to include a dial button where you can select photos for upload to the portal Picture town (for those who wear

photos from Nikon service via Nikon Transfer software).

The facility is clearly an advantage over other competitors in which rarely have them. However, the function of tagging photos with GPS assistance is more optimal if the shooting was conducted in an open room, not in enclosed spaces (indoor). Keep in mind, use the GPS facility was also able to make the battery more quickly exhausted.
As a semipro camera, Coolpix P6000 is already satisfied thanks to the many kinds of manual settings available and the results are pretty good photos. However, at ISO 400 upwards, some details of the image often looks lost.

In terms of facilities and capabilities, this camera is worth equated with Canon PowerShot G10 or Panasonic Lumix DMC-LX3 the same class even though battery life is not as strong as they P6000.
Sequence features typical DSLR camera is very good at helping users to explore manually. Adding to feature face detection for automatically focusing a shot toward the object and face facility D-Lighting to enhance photos dark lighting results. Our conclusion, Coolpix P6000 deserved their use was studying photography seriously.

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2010-08-08T05:05:00.000-07:00

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This is the ninth Legendary Sword in the World

2010-07-25T07:50:00.000-07:00

1. Saladin (Salahuddin Al Ayubbi) Sword
Saladin (Salahuddin Al Ayubbi) sword, the Kurdish Muslim general and warrior from Tikrit. This sword made from Damascus steel very hard but flexible because it has a content of CNTs (carbon nanotubes). He said this is very sharp sword, sharp enough to easily pierce armor Renald de chatilon.
Salahuddin popular among Muslims and Christians because of his leadership, military strength, and nature of the knights and forgiving when he fought against the crusaders. Sultan Salahuddin Al Ayubbi is also a cleric. He provides footnotes and a variety of explanations in the book of hadeeth of Abu Dawud. Now this sword is a private collection Shahhi family in the UAE. It costs about
$ 555,000

2.       The Sword of King Goujian
        This sword is a state treasure and has charisma equal to King Arthur's Excalibur sword. When found, this sword has more than 2000 years old, but still very sharp and not rusty. Moreover, there is a rhombic pattern of concentric circles and 11 which is only 0.2 millimeters away from its hilt.
Material: bronze.
Length: 55.6 cm (including handle)
Width: 5 cm.

        Swords made of copper, making it more flexible and less likely to destroy; side of the sword has a tin content, making it harder and was able to maintain a sharp edge; sulfur reduces the possibility of erosion patterns.
King Goujian sword is one amazing example of previous metallurgical science in China. Even now, his own sword is not easy to be replicated.

3. Zulfikar sword
Zulfikar, the legendary sword of Ali ibn Abi Talib. Told, at the Battle of Uhud (625 M) Prophet Muhammad Zulfikar presented to Ali (son), and the sword that conquers most weight enemies of Ali ibn Abi Talib is Amr ibnu Abu dawud, while Helm and armor destroyed. Zulfikar was then used by Husayn ibn Ali, the grandson of Prophet, who died in the Battle of Karbala.

4. Honjo Masamune

Honjo Masamune, a symbol of the Tokugawa shogunate swords made by Masamune, the famous sword maker in Japan in the early 14th century. Artificial sword Masamune often compared with an artificial sword Muramasa, which allegedly is a former pupil. Masamune sword symbolizes peace, while Muramasa sword symbolizes the blood thirsty.

5. Muramasa
Muramasa Sengo (Sengo Muramasa) was a famous swordsmith who founded the Muramasa school and lived during the Muromachi period (16th century) in Japan.
Oscar Ratti and Adele Westbrook said that Muramasa "was a good swordsmith but cruel and ill-thought, which is reflected on homemade swords. The sword was believed to be blood thirsty and to encourage their soldiers to commit murder or suicide."
When Tokugawa Ieyasu became shogun, artificial Muramasa sword is no longer popular because it was believed killed many people near Ieyasu.

6. The Wallace Sword
This sword is owned Sir William Wallace (1270 - 1305), A knight and Scottish patriot who perform resistance terhadapan British rule. Mentioned that the sword was used in the Battle of Stirling Bridge in 1297 and the Battle of Falkirk (1298).
132 cm long sword blade, while the overall length including handles is 168cm. Wide variety of sword blades, near the handle 2:25 and 0.75 inch at the tip. Weight is 2.7kg sword.

7.Tippu Sultan Sword
Sword ownership Sultan Fateh Ali Tippu (Urdu: فتۃ الی تیپو) November, 1750, Devanahalli - May 4, 1799, Srirangapattana), also known as the Tiger of Mysore epithet, is de facto ruler of the Sultanate of Mysore in India in the year 1782 (in when his father died) to his death in the year 1799.

8.Excalibur
Because according to legend, can not be certain what the original shape of this sword. Here are two versions of them. But in general it is believed that the Excalibur is the sword Claymore manifold.
Who would not know at the Excalibur. This legendary sword is the sword belongs to the King Arthur.Dan according to legend; this sword has magical powers that gave him the right of British rule. In the language of the sword was named Caledfwlch Wales.
Excalibur's name comes from the ancient French language Excalibor, which comes from the Latin Caliburnus. In the legend of Arthur, there are two stories about the origin of this sword. The first is the legendary "Sword in the Stone", first appeared in the poetry of Robert de Boron Merlin, in which Excalibur from the stone may be withdrawn only by persons who are entitled to become king, which is Arthur.
In the second version, which appeared in the Suite du Merlin, Arthur receives Excalibur from the Lady of the Lake after his first sword broken in battle against King Pellinore.

9.Kusanagi
Similar to Excalibur, no one knows the form of his sword.
For the people of Japan, the legendary sword Kusanagi is the equivalent of Excalibur. His full name is Kusanagi-no-Tsurugi ("Grass Cutting Sword"). According to legend, the sword is obtainable by a god named Susanoo cut the tail while it is the fourth of a dragon-headed monsters and eight-tailed, Yamato-No-Orochi.
Then dedicated to the goddess Ameterasu. He says the sword is kept at Atsuta Shrine, but until now no one outside the temple, except the emperor, who had seen this sword.

Costa Rica, and the America Hotel Choice

2010-07-23T09:12:00.001-07:00

Are you planning to go to Costa Rica and need a place to live? You will find that there are many American hotels named and comfortable stay. It's a good idea for those who do not want to be a traditional experience of Costa Rica.
You can try to go first at the Marriott Hotel (located in San Jose) so you can get a nice view to wake up every morning, including 30 aces coffee plantations. The interior is beautifully decorated with antiques to create an elegant and relaxed. You'll also notice that the land is the most beautiful scenery you'll ever see when you start looking for volcanoes, tropical forests and many local attractions, but you can always return to the Marriott Hotel in welfare for some comfort as you wish.
It is an ideal place to relax from the day with two beautiful outdoor pool or Palmas Wellness and Spa. While staying at the Marriott, you'll enjoy a first class restaurant and lounge, and you'll also receive the mountain scenery. Here you will find valet parking, safe and mini bar in each room, and you'll also be able to benefit from the use of the Internet, so you can keep with the spirit world. refresh your bedroom at night and offers a free daily.
There are many honeymoon packages if you go to Costa Rica as a new bride. This package is $ 329 per night, breakfast restaurant in Antigua, a bottle of conch and Toro on arrival and fresh cut roses and brought to your room each morning. You can also enjoy the Pura Vida massage and you'll love the time you spend welfare Palms and Spa. Then the evening, enjoy an intimate dinner for two at the Spanish restaurant La Isabela.
You might also want something a little more your style. Choose La Quinta de Sarapiqui Lodge. You'll find that you want to get a reservation for your flights, taxis, rental car and if you go by the hotels. There are 23 rooms, each has its fans, the terrace and hot water. You can also enjoy the local pool, and an insect museum, known locally as Jewels "of the humid tropics, there is also a butterfly garden, frog garden, and recovery programs. If you like bird watching you will love this hotel because it has the ideal destination for nature lovers.
If you happen to always find a good hotel, you can see that the Four Seasons Resort will be more than willing to accommodate you. You will find this hotel in the isthmus of the Pacific, but surrounded by golden beaches and some of the best areas of the beach in Costa Rica. You'll also have a golf course, pools and spas can provide all the fun you need to relax. All rooms and suites are best made of wood and stone. You will be able to find a class with style when you come to the Four Seasons.

Advancing Oxidative Stress Technology at OXIS International

2010-07-15T09:39:00.000-07:00

All people believe that health is the most precious treasure we have. Imagine if we are sick, how much revenue that we get will be in vain, and how much money we spend on treatment. The most important factor of our health that immunity for all types of viruses, free radicals, and other diseases. To overcome that, we need to increase endurance, antioxidant and defensive capabilities. One way is to use products to combat the harmful effects of free radicals. In human life, especially in a city full of challenges and demands of jobs, many workers experience various problems, including stress. So today I want to share with all our readers about oxis.com. Awesome company to prevent and treat illness especially stresses. They come with an R & D to medicine.Oxis.com stress really believes the best companies to supply medicines worldwide.

OXIS international, Inc. influence product research is, - development and - sale of the pressure of the participation resisting „oxidized malicious “. The pressure oxidized mentioned that the oxidation resistance body and other defense ability and the situation of the free radical (to a high degree simply also called, to react to kind combat oxygen and - nitrogen) and your normal health loses balanced or is weakened strictly to be sunk. Its product the interior is developed inclusively and/or becomes the biotechnology and the enterprise work as medicine candidate’ permitted; nutraceutical product of the s-treatment, cosmeceutical product and private formulation and clinical product. Closed in their products are anti-aging, Antioxydant (Antioxidants are compounds that prevent oxidation by free radicals. Antioxidants can be vitamins, minerals, or enzymes for anti aging, antioxidant, glutathione, penny stock & free radicals), Glutathion, cheap shares and products of the free radical.

Because they are perhaps safe and effective are, they concentrate us in the protection material spontaneous production. OXIS international, Inc primary product mixes and emphasizes many “The super oxidation resistance “the means, L-Ergothioneine a key component takes.

To get to know about Oxis you can examine it out where approximately on their official site http://www.oxis.com, or join them on Oxis on facebook and Oxis on Twitter. Therefore, try to live healthy and consume foods or supplements containing Glutathione.

Mystical Power of Princess of Amen-Ra and Disaster Titanic Sinking

2010-06-02T07:24:00.000-07:00

On April 14, 1912, the ship "Titanic", which became the pride of the sea transport companies "White Star Line", at the time of the first journey from London to New York, struck an iceberg south of Newfoundland, and sank with most of the crew ships and passengers.

Sinking ship "Titanic", which still remains the most horrible disasters in the shipping of this century, causing his death 1675 persons. What really happened?

How Giant Pacific Ocean, which at that time regarded as a most beautiful ships, as well as the largest and most secure, in the world, can suffer a bad fate and drown?

Investigation efforts, which was then held, never managed to fully explain the cause of the disaster. Thus, investigators have never been able to find the causes, why Captain Smith, who assumed command of the ship, acting so strange.

Smith is a great sailor, very experienced in traveling across the ocean voyage, and he knows the sea-road from London to New York as the palm of his hand.

However, on the day of the disaster, he has a follow-act very strange, among the most obvious is, that he has taken a path that is not common and has been sailing with a speed limit, and again, that he, as not incoming sense, does not want to ask for help the other ship, which sailed well in the area.

And more surprising is the fact, that the investigators have been able to collect information from passengers, who do not become victims of the disaster, that Captain Smith did not tell you how to save themselves until such time as the last. Everything indicated that Captain Smith had lost consciousness.

Nevertheless, the fact that all is not yet provide an explanation. The realities that in fact raises other questions. What exactly is causing the state, in which Captain Smith as if he had memory loss?

In a maximum effort to find an explanation, which makes sense, about the strange occurrences, some journalists, who have been appointed to follow the investigation into the cause of the disaster, managed to put forward a conjecture, which is very surprising.

At the time of the disaster, "Titanic" carries 2200 passengers, 40 tons of potatoes, bottles of Aer-dutch 1200, 7000 bags of coffee, eggs 3500 eggs, and others .... and an Egyptian mummy.

The mummy belongs to a British collector, Lord Canterville, who had to transport from London to New York, where the exhibition is being held ancient Egyptian objects.

The mummy is the corpse of a fortune-teller, who lived in the era of Amenophis IV; his tomb was discovered in Tell el-Amarna. Mummy, as well as other Egyptian mummies, dressed in very many objects - objects amulet.

Especially under the head, there is an amulet, which contains pictures god Osiris, with the caption, which reads as follows: "Arise from your sleep, who soundly; your eyes will beat everything, being committed against you".

Moreover, antiques, for exceptional value, are not contained in the space of goods. Sealed in a wooden crate, a sturdy strong, the mummy was laid in the back where the command of Captain Smith.

In "Magic Egypt" (= Egypt Unseen), London in 1961, John Newbargton writes as follows: "Mummi reason, that causes madness Captain Smith. Mummy must be equipped with a protection system based on radioactive emission, which also has destroyed all the equipment from the cruise ship 'Titanic'. "

TIPS HOW TO GET $1000 IN A MONTH OR LESS

2010-05-24T10:02:00.000-07:00

Remember back when you first accepted to work for a company that you are applying, you are so passionate enthusiasm and excitement. Even your dreams can often drift to smile - a smile himself. Your imagination can realize your dreams, like a brilliant career, money earned from your salary can be used to buy this, buy it, etc..

Several years later, you are no longer as formerly, work piled up, left early and come home late at night, energy and your mind more and more tired, bored ....

Dreams d that never once crossed can nevertheless be realized, the more inflated the cost of living, the money we get out so, and a myriad of problems that arise that we never anticipated before
Then you stress and frustration ... ...
Tired of being employees ... ... ... ... ... ... ....

Spend your 10 minutes just to read the information on this GREAT BUSINESS OPPORTUNITY, and can run it online.

Never try to run internet business at home? Really nice! Truly a home-based business (home business) is wonderful. Without having to many hours to the office, no salaries, but even if we only run it as a home business, income can be tens of millions per month. Even though living in remote villages, there is a path home internet, internet business we can still produce. Even when traveling for a year with family, visiting various places in the world, we remain the way internet business.

Who else wants abundant income? Even Hundreds of Millions Every day flowing in your account and Without Hard Work and a little promotion.

The problem is: how much money is spent as capital to start a home business on the internet? Already join this internet business, internet business as well join it. Whether it's local home-based business, home-based business or internet form a global business. But why all ends with a FAIL?
Then, you keep looking, keep searching ... wonder what the secret actually make money from this Internet Business? very hard! But why, for some people is very easy ... Ikh!

Why other people can, I do not!
Upset, already so many Internet businesses that followed on the internet ... But it FAILS again, fail again. Money kept low, the income is still just a BIG ZERO!
Are you experienced? Be thankful. I repeat, be grateful. Because starting today Insya Allah your search ends soon.
STOP .. Throw away - distant thoughts - negative thoughts and getting ready - ready to be a person who has the financial freedom Forever ..
This business idea I eventually dismantle also
$ 1,000 PER MONTH it was VERY EASY
EVEN TOO EASY
About the business ideas which I want to offer? I am sure, must surely that's what you are thinking occurred.
What business is it?
What we call this business is HOSTING.
What is Hosting?
Hosting is where we put the files a website or blog, either image files, text, html, mp3, video, and so forth, so that people can see on the internet.
If likened to, a domain is the address, then the hosting is his office or home. Means that if someone rented hosting, it meant like renting a house or rent an office. Only, the place is on the internet.

On the internet, every person / company who would ONLINE, must have a website. To have their own website, then he must hire a "place" in the company whose name hosting services WEB HOSTING SERVICE.

What is WEB HOSTING SERVICE? Web hosting services are companies that provide space on a server they own or lease for use by their clients as well as providing Internet connectivity, typically in a data center. Web hosts can also provide data center space and connectivity to the Internet for servers they do not own to be placed in their data center, called colocation.
A web hosting service is a type of Internet hosting service that allows individuals and organizations to create their own website accessible via the World Wide Web.
I think this information can be useful for you. If you plan to make your website, this is one web hosting free web hosting provider's server good for beginners - 000webhost.com -

They provide free web hosting. You get 1500 MB of disk space and 100 GB bandwidth. They also have cPanel (control panel) is amazing and easy to use website builder. In addition, there was nothing of the ads on your pages.
Registration Here you can: http://www.000webhost.com

Then ... how do we get revenue from this website?

Relax ... ...

I'll let the secret ... ...

Well, here's the secret on how to obtain $ 1000 within a month or less ... .. Not Tired Khan read my writing?
The first step, we must register as a member of 000webhost.com

Registration Here you can: http://www.000webhost.com

Then the display will appear as below:

After that press the Sign Up button and the display will appear as below:

The contents of an existing column with the column of your data, then press the Create My Account. Then open your email inbox, and open email from 000webhost.com and click activation link to activate your account.
Then What?
Then ... ... we join an affiliate program this 000webhost ... ... ... ...
Simply press the button Earn Money / Affiliate Program. Then Sign UP and you'll get your Affiliate Link. If there are others who Sign UP through your link, you will get a commission.
Through the scheme 000webhost.com affiliate program, you can get $ 5 for every visitor you send to the site that produces 000webhost.com registration / subscription.

Payments will be sent via check, wire transfer or PayPal once you reach the minimum payout of $ 100, or 20 registration.
Imagine trying ... ... ... ... ..
If we could invite 200 people (friends - friends, brothers and sisters, family, or anyone else) to register at 000webhost.com through our Affiliate Links, then we will get a commission of $ 1,000, income is not impressive enough for a beginner ... ... ... ...
But ....
How do I invite others to sign up?
There are many paths to Rome ... ..
You could invite others via email, Social Networking, such as:
Facebook, Twitter, etc..
How?
Interested?

Please try to register through the link below:
http://www.000webhost.com

TIPS TO GET DEBIT CARD PAYOONER FOR FREE

2010-05-15T08:08:00.000-07:00

Usefulness of the debit card Payooner

I think this is important. With this card, you can use it for online and offline transactions, to Verify Paypal and Paypal account withdrawal, may also receive payments from certain online business that you follow. In addition, this card also can be used to withdraw money at ATMs and MasterCard logo to shop.

Last but not least, you have Mastercard card number that can be used to attend some free trial products that require charging a credit card number. -If you're looking for online business, debit cards will greatly help your business.

This card is issued by one bank in the USA, namely Payooner.com. but we can not order directly at the bank. we have a list of websites in one partner, ie : FriendFinder.com. FriendFinder is a friendship site, this mode is only a strategy to get free Mastercard.
You no charge at all or FREE. I myself have gotten this card, is now being filled, not only in the FriendFinder but at other online businesses.

Anyway usefulness of this card is to verify our Paypal account. If that did not have a Paypal account please register http://www.paypal.com/. Now these days are busy talking about Virtual Credit Card (VCC), which serves to verify, the price is varied. With this Payoneer debit card so we can verify your Paypal account is FREE and can withdraw the balance at ATMs worldwide that MasterCard logo!

Immediately, to the point, remember do not go directly to the website because Payoneer not currently receive a personal registration for Indonesia, so consider the following step by step to get this Payoneer card:

First Steps
• Click this link to go to FriendFinder .com site.
Then click on the link "Join Now"

After clicking the link above, please do the registration, fill in your name, gender, etc. according to which there is in the form.
• After registering right then open the email to verify your friends through email and get the password.
Well, the first step is completed, the brothers already have an account at FriendFinder.com

The second step
• Once your account got FriendFinder, affiliates program list, click on this link Friendfinder Affiliate.
After the open pages friendfinder.com site follow the steps below.

Click on the link 'Affiliates' as shown in the picture above
2. Click: 'Affliate sign up'
3. Preferred courses: fill with 'no.1 Permember payout'
4. First name: fill in your first name
5. Last name: fill in your last name
6. URL: the URL of your website content, who don’t have one, create a blog first.
7th. Desired password: fill with your desired password
8. Newsletter Preferred language: English
9. Email Address: fill in your email address
10. Secondary email: If you don’t have, no need to be filled
11. Checks payable to: Your Name
12. Street Address: fill your home with a clear address (To this address your Mastercard debit cards will be sent from New York)
13. City: content with the City / County where you live
14. State / province: the contents of the province where you live
15. Zip / Postal code: fill it with your home zip code
16. Tax id: blank
17. Business classification: Individual
18. Phone number: fill with no home or your mobile phone
19. Instant messenger: No.
20. Use e passporte: No.
21. Make sure properly filled after completion 'click here for the last step'
22. Click 'Submit' (checklist before approval box)
23. URL addresses are listed there, your replica web site (note this address, because you'll use to campaign).
24. Click 'Account information' which is on the right side of the web and then comes your account information.
25. Click 'here' (blue) to update your information relating to the payment via payoneer.

26. Click 'sign up to be paid by prepaid Mastercard' (underlined and blue) you will be directed to make a Mastercard debit card.
27. Click 'Get your prepaid Mastercard now'.
28. Follow and content of each stage and check the appropriate box with you.
29. Last section you will be asked to fill in ID, fill it with no: ID card / driving license or your passport.
Once completed registration, you will receive a verification email from payoneer and Friendfinder.com
Just follow this step by step.
After registering at Payoneer we have to wait approximately 2-3 business days to get an email account if we are accepted or not. After approve a debit card will be sent approximately 2-3 weeks to our address, If your debit card Mastercard already received (approximately three weeks after registration) do not forget make an activation, and then promote your website replica.

NB: Make a list that already Payoneer do not enter into ATM debit card before your account is activated through Payoneer site. Paypal verification can be done after the card is filled Payoneer min 2 USD, because Paypal will withdraw $ 2 for the verification process. Then how I'll fill Payoneer account? yes obviously by running FriendFinder affiliate or other program use Payoneer as a means of payment for example bux.to, etc.

Toxins in your body!

2010-05-13T07:58:00.001-07:00

BLAME's EASY, it HARD ... BE LIABLE
That's the REALITY OF LIFE that we must accept and FACE
as a MAN.

MANY PEOPLE at the time they DEALING WITH "FAILURE",
they tend to blame

+ OTHERS,
+ DESTINY,
+ Or their inability,

that only REASON to NOT TRY
ONCE AGAIN.

Let us increase our MINDSET as Men
Charming with a mindset that will set us apart
than 90% of men out there, namely:

Stop blaming and start
Responsible.

What does this mean? I will explain this in
an Illustration ...

Imagine a man bitten by a snake ... If
STUPID man, he will revenge and CHASING snake
to run out and took revenge KILLED
her on the snake.

Although the snake finally managed to kill,
Men will also direct the DEAD since TOXICITY
entered into the body quickly spread due to
he was too much engaged with the pursuit of these snakes.

Then what should be done?

A smart man UNDERSTAND that the
made him sick was not the snake bites,
TOXICITY but that there is in their physical bodies ... by
because it WILL NOT HE IS CHASING Snake,
Sucking it in their own blood for
TOXICITY existing issued in his body.

Stories that reflect EXPRESSLY
ANY happens to YOU, although it is NOT
one of you, the poison remains in YOURSELF. Person
another makes you sick HEARTS ARE POSSIBLE ... Situation
FAILURE MAY BE causing ... MAY Conditions
JUST not siding with you, BUT IF YOU ARE
BLAME THOSE OTHER PEOPLE DO without
realize that there are in real TOXICITY
YOU, then it certainly WILL NOT CHANGE THE SITUATION
be BETTER.

Whatever happens to you, it's your fault GOOD,
OTHERS WRONG or (if you think) ONE DESTINY,
be VERY WRONG if you are NOT DOING NOTHING.

It is VERY EASY to irresponsible
and ONLY say

"Oh that's WRONG HE dong wrong ... I ga ..."

Or

"Well I emang THIS, diapain want more ... yes already
laaah ... "

Or

"DESTINY is not only able to give punishment ... well
reality is so alive. "

What makes the above sentences to appear as
REASONS NOT RESPONSIBLE authentic for ... Yet
would be very WISE as to WITH A MAN
MINDFUL that as soon as possible sentences
That is what makes many people STILL on
CONDITIONS they DO NOT WANT.

Therefore, ANY happens ... Wrong
whoever it was ... it's our job as
a man for NOT BLAME ANYONE-WHO and
START TAKING ACTION is FULL RESPONSIBILITY
to change things for the better.

If YOU apply this principle into your life,
I guarantee you'll stay away more mature,
MORE INTERESTING far, far away can MORE
REDUCE HEART PAIN, and certainly
MORE HAPPY far.

Stop blaming and Take Responsibility STARTING Right
Now!

Wheels FOR SUCCESS

2010-05-05T09:04:00.001-07:00

Imagine a car. It takes four wheels to operate simultaneously in order to make the car run. If one wheel off, then the car can not run.
This SAME WITH SUCCESS if you want to achieve, whether it is about Career, Relationship, of Finance, or anything else you want.
It takes four wheels for success!

What are these wheels?

The wheel is: Learn, Practice, Apply, Repeat

LEARN is the phase LEARNING THEORY,
Practice is practice phase THEORY,
Is the phase PRACTICES APPLY make it into your self SECTION
Repeat the phase learn from mistakes and repeat the process

Many people who ask me why they did not get RESULTS visit from what they do. And With easy it to them I can EXPLAIN WHY they do not get results.

Most people do phase JUST LEARN, LEARN, and LEARN ... They do NOT THE SAME ONCE Practice, Apply, let alone Repeat. In other words, they just THEORETICAL.

Well, if you are one person who behaved so, try to realize that with only LEARN, success will not by itself from DUE TO THE SKY! ... You take ACTION by doing Practice, APPLY and Repeat!

I give an example:

Remember the time you learn the lesson high school junior or ACCOUNTING? THAT TIME ... maybe you think that the lesson of his accounting IMPORTANT NOT EVEN so not important at all BECAUSE you think that is a SIGNIFICANT COMPUTER LESSONS, because later you will HAVE HIGH SALARY CAREER with if you become PROGRAMMER.

Then what happened? ... After you REALLY so PROGRAMMER, you realize you can not finance you for SET not understand at all about ACCOUNTING.

SUCH experience makes you realize that actually it was VERY NECESSARY accounting lessons.

Same as PROCESS Repeat, where you learn THEORY and try the field, the field can sometimes EXPERIENCE you look at the changing notions such THEORIES.

What was your thought MEANING THEORY is A, then when you try on the field and gain experience, then TURN the theory is that the meaning of B, which you can not realize it if you are NOT practicing in the field and LEARN from your EXPERIENCE.

In other words, you can SEE MORE IN REVIEW EXPERIENCE a theory based on your field! ... NEW English called Insights.

Therefore, the ME-PHASE REVIEW repeat back all field experience that has become your CHARACTER, and repeat the process Processing BACK TO LEARN, LEARN MORE However, the process THEORY ADVANCED because you have learned, now has a deeper meaning because the New Insights you get from your EXPERIENCE.

So, if you want to SUCCEED, remember the process, namely: LEARN, Practice, APPLY and repeat ... Then from Repeat, repeat the process again to LEARN.

How To Smoothly Escalate Your Conversations

2010-03-21T06:55:00.000-07:00

Dear Friend,

Have you ever blown it with a woman because your lack of conversation skills killed any chance of attraction?

Let's talk honestly…

…have you ever experienced that moment while talking to a woman where your mind just seems to shut down… And the harder you try to think of something "cool" or "witty" to say the more you retreat into your own head… and you can see in the woman's eyes that she is starting to realize that you're not as cool as she thought you were a few minutes earlier...?

…have you ever "ejected" from a conversation while it was still going good because you didn't know how to escalate the conversation past a "friendly" level… so rather than risk rejection or embarrassment … you walked away from a woman and got nothing…?

…have you ever felt "overshadowed" by other guys who just seemed to naturally be more charismatic talkers than you… like they just seemed to effortlessly get girls in a fun and flirty mood… while your conversations seem boring or 'try hard' in comparison…?

…have you ever gotten a girl's phone number… but not called her… because you were terrified of that moment when she answers the phone… the struggle to think of 'what to say next'… the dreaded "awkward silences" … so instead you would literally hold the phone in your hand for hours before finding a good rationalization not to call…?

…have you ever had a friend introduce you into a conversation with girls… and after the initial hellos and handshakes… you just seemed to have nothing interesting to contribute. Even though everyone else was jumping in with topics that were fun and amusing… by the time you thought of something worth bringing into the conversation… the moment would pass… and you would just stand there feeling the odd man out…?

Have you ever had any one of these things happen to you?

If you're like I was when I first started to work on my "dating life", then you've been in one or more of these situations... probably MANY TIMES.

And what's the WORST part about going through one of these things?

Well, if you ask me, the most PAINFUL part of it is that as you're going through it, you always KNOW that it's YOU that's screwing things up!

And it sucks!!!

… Always DISGUSTED with yourself for blowing it again

…Always watching the girl you desire choose another man

…Always wondering what your friends are privately SNICKERING about you

…Always feeling so DESPERATE and alone

"Why don't you just give up?"

I know why you don't give up…

Because you know that finally figuring this out changes EVERYTHING

I think by now you "get it." And you know it's not looks, money, or power (these things mean nothing if you can't talk) that gets you women…

It is your ability to open up your mouth and talk to them in a way that gets them feeling attraction towards you... And once you master this… you can literally talk to ANY woman…and within seconds… create that "spark" that other guys go their entire life without experiencing…

I know you've imagined it, yourself with James Bond like smoothness… Able to walk right up to woman you see on the street, or behind the counter at your bank, or in a grocery store, or at your job...

…And get the girl smiling, touching you, laughing at all of YOUR jokes (even the unfunny ones) all while you easily transition to an almost PERFECT seduction.

Not to mention the a surge of confidence that radiates through all areas of your life- allowing you to have more fun and CONNCECT with more people… and it means having women approach and chase YOU

It means an entirely new world where you have the courage to go after exactly what you want, and you get the RESPECT and admiration of all the men who don't.

Best of all it means looking forward to going out and talking to women… and ENJOYING your conversations with them… And finally getting RESULTS….

You DON'T GIVE UP because you know exactly what this means… and you know this is WORTH LEARNING.

"A Realization That Changed Everything For Me"

When I was searching for the hidden secrets on how to get better at talking to women… I almost never found what I was looking for. There was a ton of great information on building your inner game, what attracts women, body language, and what to say to start a conversation…

But what I realized is there are certain things you need to know to execute all of this…

* You need to know was how to TRANSITION all of these attraction building techniques into a conversation SMOOTHLY…

* You need to know how to instinctively know WHAT TO SAY NEXT…

* You need to know how to recover from those moments where your mind goes BLANK and you completely STALL OUT…

* You needed to know how to ESCALATE a conversation from something fun and playful to something on a more SEXUAL level…

* You need to know how to draw more ENGAGING conversation out of the girl you are talking to

* You need to know how to think quicker… how to "turn it on" instantly… and how to become more CHARISMATIC…

For a very long time I became almost obsessed with the question "What do I talk about?"

When one of my friends would hook up… although too embarrassed to outright ask… I would shamefully pry "what did you say to her?"

And when I frantically searched through forum posts online reading other guy's success stories I always looked for the little snippets of dialogue that I would analyze and try to recreate.

Yet anytime I found myself alone with a girl… and knew that I had the perfect opportunity to connect with her… instead, my entire body would get tense… my voice would get creaky… and I'd find myself sort of shrugging and asking boring interview questions… and although she was being polite… I could tell she wanted to be anywhere but next to me…

In fact as my insecurity over my lack of conversation skills got larger, I started to find that this "what do I talk about" question was SABATOGING other areas of my life.

Anytime I got around anyone even slightly outside of my comfort zone I would start to feel this shell grow around me and the harder I tried to crack it…the more I would just murder my chances at creating any sort of connection.

Why did it seem that the harder I tried the more boring and UNNATURAL my conversations became?

"My a Ha Moment"

I remember one night hanging out with a friend of mine who has always just killed it with the ladies… Within ten minutes of talking to this girl she was already inviting him back to her place… I stood there stumped…. There was no brilliant conversation… in fact, most of the conversation was pretty mundane… yet, she was giggling and having FUN the entire time…

Then I had a real "a ha moment" when I had a simple realization:

I realized that the guys who seem to do the best with women were NOT the guys who were able to have the most interesting conversations…

And it hit me!

It is not your ability to talk about interesting things with a woman that turns her on… it is your ability to have fun together talking about NOTHING.

"What if everything you thought you knew about conversation skills was wrong?"

It's your ability to have fun together talking about NOTHING… read that AGAIN... and the again!

If this seems counter-intuitive to everything you thought you knew …or everything you have been TAUGHT it is not your fault.

Very few people "crack the code" and understand this concept.

I remember reading the book "The Game" and being so FRUSTRATED because the book would make it seem that you would just use a fun opener to get a woman talking, use a few routines…and WHAMO she would be dragging you into the bathroom for a quickie…

No mention at all of the long stretches of conversation between opener and close…

The Small Talk

"What The 'Gurus' Leave Out"

But as I read more and more books, listened to more and audio courses, and attended more and more live workshops…

I began to really pay attention to the subtle things that WERE NOT BEING DISCUSSED.

And here is what I found…

A lot of the advice being shelled out on conversation skills says something like "talk about something you're passionate about."

Makes sense, right?

If you put ANY guy in a conversation with a woman and let him spend the entire time talking about one or two topics he's passionate about… he'll do pretty good… right? At the very least, he won't stumble into those immobilizing silences….

…That is until the topic runs DRY. And then you're DEAD in the water.

On the other hand, the guys who really kick ass with women… the guys with the "jaw dropping" talent to seduce nearly ANY woman… the guys who have the perfect ten models wrapped around their pinkies…

"Great Conversations Talking About Nothing?"

These guys are able to have great conversations with women talking about essentially nothing.

These guys have girls giggling and wide eyed… during small talk... They naturally keep the conversation FLOWING… all the while, slowly moving the conversation in the exact direction THEY want to take it.

So much emphasis has been placed on what to say to demonstrate value, or what to say to show confidence, or what to say knock the girl off her pedestal… that it is virtually never talked about how to have a flowing, FUN conversation, while seamlessly weaving all of these techniques together…

In fact, the more I began to search through the piles and piles of information available on the internet… the more I began to see just how WRONG this information actually is when it comes to creating charismatic and compelling conversations with women.

"The Most Dangerous Mistakes Men Make When it Comes to Carrying Conversations with Women"

I have spent literally years learning how to overcome my own fear and shyness… and learn how to create those fun, natural conversations with women in ANY situation. I have also spent the last five years teaching other men how to overcome their own fears, roadblocks, and shyness… and teaching them how to have successful conversations with women that create ATTRACTION and transition toward SEXUAL TENSION.

I would like to boil down the most devastating mistakes men make when it comes to their conversations with women… and then I'd like to teach you STEP by STEP how to overcome all of these mistakes…and create MASSIVE success for yourself with women faster than you ever thought possible.

Mistake #1: Spending too much time trying to show her how "cool" you are.

We all hear IT…

…That little voice inside our head that says, "I don't deserve HER?"

We look around and see dozens of other guys in the bar and wonder what we can offer her that they can't.

This puts our BRAIN in overdrive.

We desperately search for things to say that make us seem "cool."

We remember that we're supposed to be cocky, FUNNY, and confident… YET our brain turns to mush trying to figure out exactly how to be all these things at once.

So what happens now?

Well, if you're like I was, then either one of two things happens:

Either you completely FREEZE, barely even able to compose an intelligent sentence, stalling out as your mind goes blank.

Or you get so nervous that you get diarrhea of the mouth, trying way too hard to be funny… and wind up coming off as 'TRY HARD' and insecure.

It is a lot of pressure to put on you to ALWAYS say something witty.

But here is the thing…

You don't have to ALWAYS be "cool"

Most girls make up their mind about your level of "coolness" within two minutes of talking to you.

What does this mean?

It means that if you can manage to show her in the first two minutes of talking to her that you are on the SAME LEVEL as her socially… you can drop the "cool guy" act and just concentrate on carrying an ENJOYABLE conversation.

Think about it for a minute… think about how much easier a conversation would be if you didn't have to wear that "social mask" the entire time?

How much more RELAXED would you be just knowing that the woman ALREADY thinks you're cool?

Instead of constantly worrying about what to say next to make you seem cool… you could concentrate on staying in the moment and having FUN with the small talk.

Fun with small talk?

Yes, that brings me to the next biggest mistake men make with their conversations.

Mistake #2: Fearing Small talk

I have spent a lot of years reading books on conversation SKILLS… and listening to audio programs… and going to seminars…

I've spent a tremendous amount of time "testing out" the ideas that I've learned in these various books and programs.

As a result of all this "trying stuff out", I've come to the realization that you cannot avoid small talk.

As much as some "gurus" try to tell you that you need to avoid "fluff" talk like the plague… let's face it… it is just not possible.

Not only is it not possible… there is absolutely no reason to avoid small talk.

A lot of the reason that "small talk" has gotten such a bad reputation is because for most guys small talks means going back and forth like a tennis match with a succession of asking and answering boring questions with the girl… And once the questions run dry… you're both standing there bored senseless, awkwardly waiting for the other one to say something…

But that's not small talk… that is just mangled conversation skills.

In fact, as I began to really pay attention to the guys that could spend HOURS comfortably in the ZONE with women… I noticed that more than 75% of their conversation was small talk.

But it was FUN small talk.

There is a HUGE difference.

Small talk is sort of like the highway the two of you are driving on together. It is the long winding road that takes you from point A to point B.

Along the way there is going to be some bumps in the road, some traffic, and some thoughts of "are we there yet?"

Since you know that it is inevitable…

Don't bitch and complain about it… Instead, roll the windows down, pump up the radio; put the pedal to the medal… and ENJOY THE RIDE.

You've just learned one of the important pieces of the puzzle for changing: AWARENESS.

Now that you KNOW that you don't need to avoid small talk, you can start to EMBRACE IT…

Now you just need to learn some specific techniques to MAKE SMALL TALK SEXY… and begin to create conversations that flow naturally along this highway.

Mistake #3: Trying to be funny instead of fun

It was only recently I came to realize that making women laugh was COMPLETELY different than I had previously thought.

For the longest time I used to believe that that the same humor that had my friends rolling on the floor in laughter would naturally cause the same reaction in the women I was talking to.

Wouldn’t it make sense? Isn’t comedy supposed to be universal?

But when I really started to pay attention to what women were laughing at I started to notice:

1. The sarcastic wit that made me a hit around most of my guy friends very seldom got positive reactions around women.

2. Some of the guys I knew who had the lamest, most childish humor, often seemed to get the best reaction of women.

3. Women very rarely judged the originality and cleverness of humor the way my guy friends did.

One day I just sat there and watched my friend Jake interact with women. Jake had always been somewhat of a natural with women. I could never understand it as I found his humor silly and childish… and he rarely said anything that would have any of my male friends laughing.

As I watched him, I began to pay more attention to the way women were reacting to him.

The women that were surrounding him had a permanent SMILE on their faces. While they were never rolling on the floor laughing… they were constantly in a state of playfulness and fun.

Now curious, I began to hone in on exactly what he was doing. As I listened I found that he was interacting with them the same way a fourth grade boy would interact with a fourth grade girl on the playground.

There was no ground breaking humor.

Instead there was constant silliness. He was perpetually teasing them. He was making funny faces. Using his voice to tell stories in a way that reminded me of an over energized nine year old telling the story of how he beat up the town bully. There was an endless barrage of only mildly amusing jokes, goofy movie quotes, and shameless physical flirting.

But the girls were eating it up.

It was right then that I came to realize that women don’t want funny.

They want fun.

I had always concentrated so hard on finding those perfect one-liners that would pronounce me the king of comedy and have my audience amazed at my originality and wit…. That I forgot who my audience was…

Women aren’t that funny.

Women don’t really care about original, witty, and sharp humor.

Women want to have fun.

They don’t want to have to think. And if your jokes are making them think too much, you’re probably taking them out of the moment.

If you’re a guy having trouble making women laugh, then your first step is to look around and pay attention to what they are actually laughing at.

1. You’ll see that they much rather watch silly romantic comedies than the witty indie dark comedies that win all the awards.

2. You’ll see that they don’t care much about the originality of your jokes… and in fact they are more likely to laugh at you repeating a knock knock joke you heard in the sixth grade than whatever sarcastic remark that pops into your mind.

3. You’ll see that women don’t appreciate the concept of “cool” the way men do. Women would rather you take the stick out of your ass and act in a fun silly way than stand around like you’re a big shot.

4. Playground humor never gets old. Never.

Women want you be around a guy that allows them to have fun. The next time that you are out with a woman and engaged in a conversation with her, make it a priority to take the conversation back to the playground.

Mistake #4: Not having an arsenal of techniques "at the ready"

You may have noticed as you read over the past four mistakes that the word "fun" keeps coming up.

Why is this?

It's pretty simple really.

If you and a woman are having fun together, she will barely notice that the conversation is slowly transforming from light and playful to FLIRTATIOUS and SEXUAL.

She will actually be rooting for you…

Because very few guys have the ABILITY TO HAVE FUN with her.

And when she is having fun she does not want it to end. Think about it… when you're really connecting with someone, and just having such a great time, do you want it to end?

No of course you don't.

So, step one is to embrace the new mindsets I just handed you…

Step two is to learn the very best conversation tactics and techniques… so you have "proven systems" for keeping the conversation fun and flirty with women in ANY situation.

Until now, there has been nowhere to go for the solution to any of these problems.

Now, there is a place where you can learn to overcome and CONQUER all of those different problems.. Plus get an intensive training on all of the step by step techniques and conversation tactics for every possible situation.

Your “Missing Link” To
Attraction Building Success…

I'm about to tell you something that you already know…

I think you ALREADY KNOW far more than the average guy about how to be successful with women.

In fact, you probably know more about this than most guys who are “naturally” good with women.

You already know the “theory”… and what you need to do to be successful. But things just aren't working for you the way you wish they would…

And… I think you know that the problem stems from your lack of conversation skills and it is preventing you from ever having a real chance at building attraction with a woman.

You know "WHAT" you need to be doing. But you don't know HOW to do it. There is a big difference… I think you figured that out by now.

I also think you realize that this problem of not being able to communicate YOUR BEST SELF is not just limited to meeting women.

I also think you know that if and when you DO tackle and defeat this problem… and get this handled once and for all… you WILL achieve the success with women---and in life---that you were born to have.

And I think you realize by now that this isn't going to happen by itself.

The problem isn't going to “solve” itself… the pieces aren't going to just “fall into place”… and you will NOT have the success with women you are looking for unless you DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

The good news is that this problem is not nearly as hard to fix as you imagine.

I speak from experience. There was a long time when I thought I was "different" and was just not capable of overcoming this area of my life…

Opening to Abundance!

2010-03-19T08:20:00.001-07:00

Letting go is important for attracting and allowing abundance into your life!

I recently did a letting go ‘ritual' that involved writing down that which I wanted to let go of and burning the paper (more tips on that further below).

Holding on, be it to negative or positive things, blocks our ability to receive in the present and mars our abundance.

You may be holding on to grievances, hurts, resentments or upsets from your past, or you may be holding on to positive things, such as qualities from past relationships or friendships, which prevent those very qualities showing up in the present.

You may be holding on to negative attitudes, habits, beliefs or thought-feeling patterns.

Perhaps you are holding on to a way life ‘should be’, to expectations, rules or demands towards yourself, others or life, that hinders acceptance and the magic of flow that allows life to change and evolve to a higher level.

The more ‘needy’ you are of something, or of a situation or person to be a certain way, the more you will repel it, for the universe wishes to free you from your dependency and remind you that what you seek does not lie ‘out there’, and that you are the source of your reality. Nothing changes until you do.

Desire, on the other hand, is a healthy generative emotion and is different to need. Your desire calls forth and attracts.

Feel your desires and the qualities you seek (why you want something and the positive emotions and qualities around that, such as the love, success, happiness, freedom, joy, etc.), and then let go of the outcome or the form of that outcome.

If it is a relationship you desire, for example, let go of any specifics about who that person should be, and be open to receiving that which is for your highest good and in alignment with your desires and the qualities you are emanating (which you do in the Manifesting Blueprint Meditation).

Trust the universe will bring you what is most appropriate for you and in alignment with your highest path.

Obviously you also want to have beliefs that support the outcomes you seek, and have positive expectation and imagination towards that realization of your heart’s desires. It is important, however, not to become too fixated or control-oriented about how things should be.

Trust, acceptance and humility are antidotes here.

Sometime the universe has something in mind for us that will serve us greater and more holistically than our limited viewpoint is aware of, something that will assist our healing, growth and soul’s purpose. We may need to let go of our preconceived expectations to allow the unknown and its gifts to land in our reality.

Letting go creates the space for something new and something beyond our imagination and expectation.

See the end of this issue for tips on doing your own letting go ritual!

Desire versus Need
There is a difference between desire, and need or desperation. Need and desperation are synonymous with feelings of lack and the absence of what you want, hence will repel your desired goal and perpetuate your not having it.

Desire, however, fuels your imagination, expectation and all the positive feelings associated with your goal so integral to successfully attracting it. Be passionate about your outcome yet remain light-hearted and unattached to ensure you don’t become needy or dependent on it.

One way to dissipate and release feelings of neediness, urgency or desperation is to trust.

Trust in the positive outcome of your goal. Trust in the love and grace of the universe and the power of your heart and mind. Trust that you are on a co-creative journey, that there is a bigger picture, and that there is love, help and guidance available to you in every moment.

Trust that the universe wants you to have what you desire as much as you do. Trust that you are loved more than you know and that the universe loves you more than you love yourself.

It doesn’t need to be a struggle and you can have what you desire with belief, positive expectation and a willingness to receive.

Trust that if you let go of something, be that a person, thing or outcome, if it is for your best it will come back to you. If you desire it and are in energetic alignment with it and it is for your highest good, you will manifest it.

It is holding on, neediness and attachment that ironically push the very things you want away. You may notice this dynamic in relationships. It’s the same with all things. If you let go of something and it is for your best it will be there.

Relax, trust, loosen your grip, relinquish control and release your dreams and visions into the world.

Believe, open to receive and expect their materialization in your world.

You can use the Manifesting Blueprint Meditation to visualize your goals and program your subconscious mind with optimum dreams for their manifestation in reality.

What’s so powerful about the Manifesting Blueprint Meditation is that it engages the power of emotional resonance where you feel and experience your dreams come true NOW in a very rich and tangible way, that brings them into being at an accelerated pace!

Your emotions are the most potent attractors and communicate directly with your subconscious mind.

They are ‘substance’ that forms reality. High vibration emotions will generate, shift, and transform your world immediately for the better, attracting positive manifestations in accord with your heart.

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Letting Go Ritual Tips!

Below are some example categories for letting go that you can use as headings/columns to write down that which you wish to let go of and then burn the paper (in a safe fire-proof container, of course!).

* Thoughts, feelings, beliefs, attitudes
* People
* Aspects and qualities of a past relationship (positive and negative)
* Significant events and feelings from the past (positive and negative)
* Grievances/angers/resentments/hurts

In the Manifesting Blueprint Meditation you get to let go on an energetic level, using intention and willingness along with visualization, allowing and the light/energy.

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How to Figure Out What You Really Want

2010-03-17T08:52:00.001-07:00

So many people have no idea what they want or just haven't taken the time to seriously think about it. They aim for nothing and hit it with amazing accuracy.

The first and very important step to achieving all your goals is actually having a clear picture of what they are.

Once you are clear you can start to take action in the direction of your goals and fashion a plan that will get you there.

So let me ask you…

* Are you someone who just can't decide from the millions of choices available to you?
* Have you sat down to write out your goals but just draw a blank?
* Are you someone who sets and achieves goals in one area of your life but falls short in others?
* Are you someone who has no idea where to start?

Well let me share with you some hints to make this process quick, easy and relatively painless…

1. Divide your goals into 5 common key areas in your life:

* Money and material possessions,
* Relationships and Partners,
* Health and Weight Loss,
* Career and Business
* Personal Development and Spirituality.

2. Draw 3 columns on a sheet of paper and title the columns as…

What I Don't Want, What I Do Want, Why I Want It.

When filling in the "What I Don't Want" column ask yourself "What don't I want based on past experiences?"

Sometimes it is easier to identify the qualities you don't want in a situation because they have been your focus. This is especially true if you have just left a job, business or relationship. Write these things in column 1 then write the opposite, positive statement of this in column 2.

For example:

* I don't want to be broke – I have an abundance of money
* I don't want a job I hate – I love my job
* I don't want to be alone — I am in a loving relationship
* I don't want to be fat — I am trim, taut and terrific

When filling in the "What I Do Want" column ask yourself "If I had $10 million and I knew I couldn't fail, what would I do, be and have?"

This column contains the opposite statements from column 1 and your dreams and desires.

For example:

* I have $1 million in the bank.
* I am the number 1 salesman in my industry.
* I cheerfully exercise every day.
* I have a fulltime housekeeper.
* I donate 10% of my income to worthy charities.

When filling in the "Why I Want It" column ask yourself "Once I achieve this goal, who will benefit? How will that make me feel?"

Here is where you focus on your motivation to achieve these things. Focusing on your WHY gives creates a "volcano" of burning, internal motivation especially if your WHY is something outside of yourself, greater than just you alone.

For example:

* My partner falls in love with me all over again.
* I make my parents proud.
* I have the love and respect of my children.
* I attract my perfect partner.
* I have the freedom of choice.

3. Next step is to arrange column 2 and 3 into a list of short, powerful, present tense statements.

When you read and recite this list each day you want to achieve the feeling that these things exist NOW (which they do) and it's just a matter of time before they materialize in your life.

For example:

* I drive a Mercedes 500SL
* I earn $20,000 per month
* I am generous with family & friends
* I am in a joyous, loving relationship

Congratulations! You now have a clear and concise list of exactly what you want to achieve. This puts you ahead of the majority of the population.

Believe me, this is a very exciting and empowering accomplishment.

Now don't worry, actually you can expect this… you may find yourself wanting to make changes to this list especially once you visualize these things existing now.

Nothing here is set in stone and you will find yourself making frequent changes to this list, especially once you start to tick things off!

Being clear about what you want and committing this list to paper is Step 1 in a 4 Step success process… this is all that stands between you and the control over the happiness and positive outcomes in your life.

How to Order from the Universe

2010-03-17T08:44:00.000-07:00

The universe you live in works very much like a popular restaurant. You go in, you decide what you want, you order it, you receive it, and you digest it.

Unfortunately, a lot of people don't seem to know how to order. Some are downright inept at it. They walk into this restaurant, behave like complete idiots, and they end up hungry and disappointed. Then they complain about the restaurant and post negative reviews online, despite the fact that the restaurant has received rave reviews from the most experienced food critics.

The Universal Restaurant

I can't tell you how many times I encounter people who set goals like, "I want a romantic partner," or "I want a stable job that pays more money," or "I want to lose weight." I've heard enough of this drivel to last a lifetime. It's reached the point where I may start carrying around a squirt gun and shoot people in the eye when they say stuff like this.

Those are crap goals. Don't waste your time on them. And definitely don't say them within earshot of me.

Setting such goals is the equivalent of walking into a restaurant and proclaiming, "I'm hungry. I want some food."

First, people will look at you like you're an idiot. They're only doing that because you are.

Second, you won't get fed.

If you're lucky, someone might hand you a menu and ask you what you'd like to order. You can order off the menu, or you can concoct something creative, but either way you have to be specific. If you stand there asking for food, you'll remain hungry.

Is this happening in your life right now? Are you standing at the Universal Restaurant, waiting for your desires to manifest, and receiving only static in response? Might the reason be that the wait staff can't figure out what the heck you're actually trying to order?

The Universe is extremely adept at fulfilling your desires — but only if you have the wherewithal to decide and order what you want. If you can't do that — and it matters not what excuses you have — you will remain hungry.

Sometimes the universe will take a stab at bringing your what you ask for. Then you reject it because, although it's what you asked for (such as a generic "romantic partner"), it isn't what you actually want. Then maybe the universe tries a few more times, and you continue to send back whatever it brings you. So eventually it gives up, concluding that you're an unreasonable customer and that it's better off spending its time and energy serving the patrons who know how to place an order properly. It says, "Ok, we're done for now. Call me back to your table when you've figured out what you actually want."

How to Order

When you set goals and intentions, place an order. Don't ask, "Please can I…?" Simply order, much like you would in a restaurant. Say, "I'll have the …" Then expect to receive what you order.

Don't be timid or cowardly or uncertain. Just state your order, and expect to get it. If you screw this up, no soup for you.

Take as much time as you want to decide what to order, but when you place your order, accept what you ordered, and know that you're going to receive it. You may have some buyer's remorse if it's not as good as you hoped, but that's okay. Receive it anyway. There will always be other meals, other orders. Not everything you receive will taste like ambrosia.

Be specific in asking for what you want.

Don't ask for more money. If you want $50K cash, then order $50K cash. Don't ask for it. Order it.

Don't ask for a better job. If you want to be a fashion blogger who travels around the world and gets free invites to major fashion shows and has 500,000 monthly readers, then order that.

Don't ask for a romantic partner. If you want a geeky, vegan, bisexual, happily jobless girlfriend who loves to travel, then order that. Order it loudly enough so your waiter can hear you, and people at nearby tables will say, "I didn't know that was on the menu. I'll have one of those too… with a twist of lemon."

One of the best ways to get what you actually want is to take your best guess, and order it. When you get what you ask for, it may not turn out quite right. That contrast between what you received and how you feel about it will give you a better sense of what you actually do want. Then you can make a better guess and take another stab at placing an order.

As you repeat this process, you'll gradually hone in on what you actually desire most at a very deep level. And then you'll get a chance to receive and experience it fully.

Realize that this is an iterative process. Don't be a perfectionist. That's like sitting in a restaurant for hours, trying to decide what you want, while impatient waiters periodically refill your water glass and pressure you to order something. It's just a meal, so make a decision, get fed, and get out. Even if it turns out to be less than you hoped for, there will be plenty of other meals. The occasional bad meal is inevitable.

How to Be an Idiot Who Can't Order at a Restaurant

What happens if you change your order before you receive it? Same thing that happens in a real restaurant. What would happen if you grabbed the waiter and changed your order before it arrived? No problem, but you'll have to wait even longer because the waiter has to cancel the original order and then submit the new one. And if you keep doing that over and over, you'll piss off the waiter and will never receive a meal. Have you been doing something like that in real life? Blue… no red… no blue! Ahhhh!

What happens if you order something, and then when you get it, you don't like it? You can eat it anyway, or you can send it back. Either way, there will be other meals. You can always order again. Learn from the experience, and do your best to make a more intelligent choice next time. You may need to sample a few items from the menu to figure out what you like and don't like. Your first order at any new restaurant may very well be your worst experience there.

What happens if you complain about the way the system works? It's not fair! I can't figure out what I want! I keep going back and forth between two possibilities! Stop pressuring me! You're free to do that, but the system will process you like an idiot. Again, that's only because you are.

If you rail against the system, it's not going to work for you. If you can't follow the simple rules, the system will process you like an idiot customer till you figure it out.

Here are the rules: Decide what you want, order it, receive it, and digest it. It's not rocket science. Don't make it complicated. It's easier to follow the rules than it is to break them. Even a child can do it.

Your Choice

Despite the obvious drawbacks, you're still free to behave like an idiot customer whenever you choose. You're free to make a vague request. You're free to change your mind every 5 minutes. You're free to reject your order after it arrives. But of course all of those actions have consequences. If you behave stupidly, you'll get stupid results.

Technically speaking, this isn't a problem. The Universal Restaurant is robust enough to handle people like you. It will process you without prejudice. However, you won't have a very good experience, and in the end you'll be disappointed with the food and/or service. Other members of your party will also be disappointed, either with the restaurant or with you personally. No one at your table will seem to be having a good time unless you order properly. If you screw it up, you'll ruin everyone's evening.

This restaurant, however, is perfectly capable of preparing the most amazing gourmet meals you could ever fancy. You just have to order properly. Be specific. Be clear, direct, and confident. Be audible. And don't keep changing your mind after you've placed your order.

When you receive your order, accept it with gratitude. Smell it. Taste it. Savor each delicious bite. Share it with others at your table if they'd like a taste, and taste some of their food too. It won't be perfect, but it's better than going hungry. Learn from the experience, and allow it to inform your future ordering decisions. Eventually you'll become a master connoisseur of the Universal Restaurant.

Work with the rules of the Universal Restaurant to enjoy the best meals of your life. Don't rail against the system. Don't be a clueless customer. And don't post negative reviews about it online.

Note: The Universal Restaurant is not to be confused with The Restaurant at the End of the Universe. I know that's what you were thinking. :)

"sexual character"

2010-03-15T09:13:00.000-07:00

I want to discuss how becoming a "sexual character" has to do with the evolution of sex and humanity.

If you've invested in my article, you know that I talk a great deal about being an "attractive character" for women. That women desire a man who is interesting (commonly referred to as "well read"), good natured but secure, independent, emotionally strong, stable, and self-sufficient.

Why? Because that is what a man, biologically, is supposed to be- through thousands, and thousands, and thousands of years of evolution. A man is supposed to be the hunter and provider. Have the strength and ability to fight off intruders and those who do harm and fight in battles, and has the independence and fortitude to build houses, villages, and communities.

When it comes to the bedroom and sex- our makeup isn't much different.

Women desire a man who can provide, who is stable and "manly", who makes her feel secure and protected. A "sexual character" is a man who has the "attractive character" mastered, and has advanced his character to also encompass what is needed to be a long-term provider, father, and protector of offspring.

However, the way a man can go about presenting this to a woman is very different from what most men assume... and most men's assumptions about this leave them lonely, sexless, and confused.

The Rules of Happiness

2010-03-13T12:48:00.000-08:00

You know when you're happy, and certainly no one has to tell you when you're sad. But what is it that makes a person happy?

It is important to realize that what makes you happy might depress another person. There are people, because of guilt, a feeling they do not deserve what they have, or a feeling they will lose what they have that makes them unhappy when they should be happy.

Possessions are a poor measure of happiness. Possessions are subjective and relative to the individual and the individual's viewpoint. Instead, we will use a philosophy as an example.

This philosophy is about enjoying things you like, avoiding or changing things you do not like, and accepting what you cannot avoid or change by the skillful use of your viewpoint. The use of this philosophy, as embodied in the five rules, will allow you to test many problem areas in your life and find solutions. With this philosophy, you will be well on your way on your pursuit of happiness.

Rule Number One: If You Like a Thing, Enjoy It.

Now that seems outrageously simple. At first you might say, "That's ridiculous, of course if I like something I'm going to enjoy it." But when you stop to think about it you'll probably agree that there are many things in life that we like but don't enjoy. The reasons we don't enjoy things we like are (a) guilt, and (b) fear. You will not enjoy something you like if you feel guilty after having done the thing, or if you are fearful of the consequences of doing it.

Rule Number Two: If You Don't Like a Thing, Avoid It.

The second rule seems simple enough, but reflect for a moment on how many people are involved with things they do not like — a job, a person, a vehicle, a type of food, any one of a thousand things — and for some reason they don't avoid those things. "Well, I can't avoid it. I have to work there because I need the money." Or, "I have to be involved with this person for many valid reasons." How many justifications can you think of for not avoiding the things you do not like to do?

Rule Number Three: If You Don't Like a Thing, and You Cannot Avoid It, Change It.

Here again, the answer is simple: change it. But just as in avoidance we rationalize that we need something about it — the money, the time, the security — something is holding you to that particular thing if you don't like it, cannot avoid it, won't change it, but are still involved with it.

Rule Number Four: If You Don't Like a Thing, Cannot Avoid It, and Cannot or will Not Change It, Accept It.

Acceptance — now there is a catch. How can you accept something you don't like? How in the world do you accept something that is 'unacceptable'? How do you accept a situation that you're not happy with? How do you accept a person that you're not happy with? Well, you really don't have to accept anything; you can, of course, be unhappy. If you don't like it, won't change it, cannot avoid it, and will not accept it, I guarantee that you will be unhappy. There are, however, five rules to the secret of happiness, and within the fifth lies the key.

Rule Number Five: You Accept a Thing By Changing Your Attitude Towards It.

You are the result of your viewpoints and attitudes. Everything is relative to the person experiencing it. There are no absolutes — nothing is good, nothing bad, except as it relates to you. Nor is life good or bad. Life simply is. You change those things you wish by changing your viewpoint about them.

How easy!
How difficult!

Your attitudes and viewpoints are all part of your mind and once you develop the power of self mind control you will be the master of your own attitudes and viewpoints. Using these five rules you'll soon find yourself on the right path on the pursuit of happiness. You'll realize why people are unhappy. Eventually it will become automatic, and you'll find happiness a predominant state of mind. Once you realize the ease of acquiring this emotion, you develop an entirely new scale of highs and lows.

Unremitting happiness, of course, is not a possible or desirable state. According to the principle of rhythm, there is always an inflow and outflow, an ebb tide and a flood tide. You'll always have highs and lows — there's no way to avoid that. However, your highs will be higher and your lows will be higher. You'll then find that what is a happy state for you might be a state of depression for someone unaware of the Rules of Happiness.

Up To The Sky !!!!!!!!!!!!!

2010-03-02T07:43:00.000-08:00

Getting close, personal, and sexy with another human being truly
is what makes the world go 'round - and not just for the
euphoria and butterflies that go with them.

If anyone has ever been a part of one, regardless of seriousness,
then they're quite familiar with the facet of them that has been
the inspiration for much of that euphoria and the majority of
the romantic poetry that has been written over the years:
the 'honeymoon' phase.

In that beautiful stretch of time, everything is right with
the world.

The air smells sweeter, birds are chirping a bit more than usual,
and everything we do is enhanced in ways we never thought
possible. We are in that moment, the very best person we can
possibly be. It's truly a gift, and one of the reasons why so
many of us want to find love in the first place.

As with most good things in life, there's a catch, and that
beautiful symphony of emotion must come to an end. For some,
the loss of this gift is too much to bear and they simply walk
away. I know I spent a good part of my adult life hopping from
honeymoon phase to honeymoon phase(s).

For others, that thing they caught a glimpse of is so amazing
that they're remiss to let it go without a fight. For those
in that category, the result is either a struggle that ends
in a messy breakup, or the finding of someone we decide to
spend the rest of our life with - with the vast majority of us
falling into the former category, whether or not marriage is
involved.

So what the hell happened?

Where did the love go?

Some individuals hypothesize that it's at the twilight of
the honeymoon phase that the 'shine' begins to wear off of
the other person and we see them as they really are, flaws
and all. This supposedly triggers our doubts, and the palace
of ivory begins to crumble.

I'm here to say that while that hypothesis does hold some weight,
it's really not at the heart of what happens.

To put it simply, it's not the others person's faults that
come starkly into focus in this darkest of hours, it's OUR OWN.

Unbreakable Confidence & Game

To explain my point, I'd like to begin with a little
relationship/attraction meta-theory that's been gathering steam
in my brain over the past year or so.

I firmly believe that we are attracted to what we're attracted
to because that particular thing happens to be what will most
directly cause us to go/grow where and how we need to at that
particular point in time, and I mean that in the most Taoist
of interpretations.

To use a fairly colorful example to explain this point, let's
say that at a given moment in someones life, he or she is drawn
to the notion of sleeping with a bunch of people.

This may be caused by some deeply rooted insecurities, or by
any other number of reasons, but at that moment, that particular
course of action is the best means for that individual to begin
the journey that will ultimately end in overcoming whatever
obstacles stand in his or way to personal realization and
fulfillment.

Notice that this theory includes all things that many people
could consider unhealthy or negative. While this may be the
case in the short term, I believe that these actions are
nevertheless the best path for a person to take.

Even if it feels like you're swimming upstream, the current is
always carrying you in the right direction.

Attraction to other human being provide us the strongest and
most direct path to this PERSONAL GROWTH, and therein lies the
reason why we are so crazily drawn to other people.

I firmly believe that without women, men would end up wallowing
in some gutter in the most depressing scenario imaginable, and
vice-versa - with the mechanism through which this happens
being one of the most brilliantly designed systems in the world.

You can never know who you're going to be attracted to, and to
what degree you'll be attracted to them, but rest assured,
there's a method to that madness.

Whoever that person happens to be, take comfort in the fact that
you are placed on each other's journeys to take you both where
you need to go.

When it really happens - when you're ready for it to happen -
it hits you like a ton of bricks, and I'm certainly not the
first to describe it in this way.

As we've already mentioned, that honeymoon phase hits, and you
are suddenly faced with a more perfect version of yourself than
you ever thought possible.

Your work goes extremely well, all of the other relationships in
your life flourish, and you're insanely open to anything and
everything - you also may happen to notice that other members
of the opposite sex can't keep their eyes off of you.

As we've also mentioned though, this inevitably comes to an end
and we're now sitting face to face with that same person we
were before all of this started. We are reminded, after a
brief glimpse of heaven, that we're still the same person with
the same "flaws" that we were before love crossed our paths.

Because these two versions of ourself, the ideal and the
reality, are now forced to stare each other down face to face,
this point can be especially troubling.

We being to feel depression-like withdrawals and other aspects
of our life begin to suffer, including work and other
relationships.

Our openness is replaced by jealousy - and those fears and
insecurities that this attraction was put in our place to
overcome begin to show their ugly head.

As strange as it sounds, this is a point to celebrate. Up until
now, these personal demons remained for the most part under
the surface, but through this beautiful process, they are now
brought to some level of light where they can actually be fought.

When faced with this situation, a person will always go in one
of three directions.

1. They simply cannot bear the situation at this time, and
decide to walk away. Maybe they'll tell themselves that their
other half simply wasn't worth it or too flawed for them - and
maybe they are - but they choose to wait until the next time
attraction hits them over the head; a time when they're better
prepared to deal with their roadblocks through more experiences
such as these.

2. They decide to continue the relationship, and use as much
'warm fuzzies' as they can muster to cover up the glaring issues.
They'll turn a blind eye to the unearthed feelings and hold the
other person as tightly as possible with hopes that with
enough "love" the shadows will eventually be banished.

Well those shadows don't simply go away on their own, and the
result of this course of action is the all too familiar pattern
of love/hate that so many of today's relationships find
themselves falling into.

The periodic episodes of hot and cold continue to escalate
until a final blowup/breakup occurs, leaving both parties
devastated in their wake.

The silver lining is that this path will ultimately lead to a GOOD
amount of personal growth after said blowup. The negative of
course is that it's often not without the cost of most of one's
mental and emotional health along the way.

3. This final path is the path is the most difficult to walk,
yet is the one that leads to the GREATEST amount of ultimate
personal growth and fulfillment.

Although it is the path of greatest resistance, some couple
are actually able to use this opportunity to face their own
personal demons, the ones that this attraction was meant to
uncover in the first place, and constructively work through
them together.

This is often not accomplished without greater or lesser
degrees of hardship, and it is rare that anyone can take on
this type of endeavor without making some missteps along the
way.

It is, however the straightest and most powerful path to ultimate
happiness that one can undertake.

At this point I must stress that there is NO one path that
is any better or worse than another. There is only what is
best for a PARTICULAR person at a PARTICULAR time.

If you know in your heart that someone is not the person to
take you to the next level in a particular situation, then
trying to tell yourself otherwise will only SLOW your pace.

So why is it again that we should even bother with all of this
in the first place? Why is this natural inborn order so
wonderful to begin with?

The answer to these questions lies in the honeymoon phase that
began our journey. The truth is that the person that you caught
a fleeting glimpse of in that phase wasn't merely a figment of
your imagination.

Although the vast majority of us are weighed down by not so
positive experiences throughout our lives, primarily in our
younger and most vulnerable years, we all have the potential
inside of us to permanently become our best self, the version
of our self that we were able to catch a glimpse of during
the initial honeymoon phase.

That version of yourself is who you TRULY are, that is the you
who can accomplish anything you desire - unbridled of your
fears - and that is the you who can limitlessly impact the
lives of everyone you encounter and the world in an exceedingly
positive way.

No matter where you are and where you've been, take comfort
in the fact that it has all happened for a VERY good reason.

Side Note: This kind of thing is a common problem most guys tend
to have at one point or another in their lives... which has
quite a bit to do with problems of healthy "personal boundaries"
and other deeper psychological concepts.

"Secrets of Personal Authority: How to Get Other People—Especially Sexy Women—to Want to Do What You Want Them to Do"

2010-03-01T07:30:00.000-08:00

Dear Friend…

Do you know why most men fail miserably with women… even those who diligently study and understand the process of attraction?

It’s because they fail to master the ONE crucial part of the attraction process, the “attraction linchpin” that holds everything together. Remove this linchpin, and the whole process fails, no matter how strong the other parts are.

No matter how much you know about creating attraction with women, no matter how much you read, study and take action, you will fail if this one critical part of the “attraction formula” is missing.

What is it? Simply this: personal authority.

Here's the truth: this is where most men are weakest when it comes to attracting, and keeping the women they desire. In fact, almost every divorce, breakup, or “dumping” has its root in the failure of the man to manifest personal authority.

If You Don't Have Personal Authority She WILL Leave You for a Man Who Does

I get more questions on this topic than any other subject, and see more confusion and frustration among men when it comes to understanding and implementing personal authority than anything else.

Why? The answer is simple: there is no place to learn the art and science of personal authority. In fact, personal authority in men is actually discouraged by the public school system, the media, and especially other weak-minded men who are fearful of its power.

Look at how men are portrayed on TV: lumpy, bumbling buffoons who are ruled by the women on the show, foolish clowns who literally trip over their own feet, only to be saved by a heroic female presence.

It may make for good TV, but when men apply this in the real world, it is an outright disaster. When you try to play the “nice guy” and give authority to the woman you’d like to attract, what happens? She flakes on you, tells you, “let’s just be friends,” or, even worse, if you’re already in a relationship, she leaves you for a jerk who most definitely would not make it in the pansy world of TV. Maybe you’ve had this happen to you, too.

The weird thing is, if you talk to women, they don’t know WHY they left or flaked. In fact, they’ll even say, “I should be attracted to him, but I’m not. He does everything for me I thought I wanted, but I’m not attracted to him, and I don’t know why.”

Here’s the big secret: women hate this as much as men do. They hate meeting a man, only to discover there’s no attraction, no “chemistry,” even though he’s the “perfect gentleman,” the tame, submissive little boy they were told by society they wanted and needed.

What’s missing? Personal authority, plain and simple. Women want a man who has a sense of authority about him, because this is what creates attraction. It is a biological fact—women literally cannot resist a man with strong personal authority. Unfortunately, most women are incredibly frustrated because they simply cannot seem to meet a man who understands what authority truly is.

Now, don’t mistake authority with abuse of authority, another mistake most men make. Hollering, screaming, arguing, and telling a woman off is NOT authority—in fact it is the opposite. If you have to resort to these methods, then you have no personal authority.

The Truth About Personal Authority

What, then is true authority? Simply this: the art of getting other people to want to do what you want them to do. That’s it—nothing more, nothing less. But it is very, very rare to meet anyone who has mastered this skill—although most of us have met at least one, once in our life.

See, when you’re in the presence of someone who has true personal authority, you want to be there, you want to spend time with them—there’s something magnetic about them. Think back to a time when you had a teacher or professor you really respected, or perhaps a ball coach or military leader. How do you remember them? Fondly, and with respect, even if they were a hard-ass at times.

Why? Because you knew they had your best interests at heart, and were hard on you to get you to perform at your best. They had incredible personal authority, and everyone remembers them. You may not remember the jerks or the abusers of authority (or you might), and you certainly don’t remember the nerdy nice guys people ran all over, but you sure as heck remember those with a profound personal authority.

Here’s something you may not have observed at the time, something that might not have even registered: how women responded to these men. In case you can’t remember, I’ll tell you: they were intensely attracted to them. If they were a teacher or professor, all the girls giggled over them, while making fun of the nerds and nice guys.

Why? Because authority in and of itself creates attraction—it draws people to you. When you exude true authority, people (especially sexy women) want to be in your presence. They tell others about you. They bring their friends to see you. They can’t get enough of you.

If there was only one thing I could teach all men about attraction, it would be how to develop your own unique personal authority. If you have that—and only that—you can create incredible amounts of attraction wherever you go. But if you don’t have it, your chances of creating sustained attraction are between slim and none, even if you’ve learned every other attraction secret under the sun.

I will boldly say I am uniquely qualified to train both men and women to develop their own personal authority. I have been in situations ranging from structured military service (in the US Navy attack submarine force) to chaotic entrepreneurial and business environments, and I was able to successfully utilize my personal authority in every instance.

I took note of how people responded to me in those situations, then transferred what I’d learned to what I considered to be the ultimate test: using my personal authority to create attraction with the women I desired.

The Ultimate Authority Test

Why did I consider this the ultimate test? Because it flies in the face of what everyone teaches about attraction and dating. In modern society, the woman is supposed to be the one with the authority, and the man is supposed to be sensitive, nice, and adoring.

Well, I’d tried all that garbage, and it just didn’t work. What was interesting though, was, it just didn’t feel right—it was what was supposed to work, but something inside me said there was something very, very wrong. But, I persisted in doing what was “supposed to work” and went on first date, after first date, never getting a second, always being the perfect gentleman. Maybe the same thing has happened to you.

Now, I’m a results oriented type of guy, and I finally got fed up with kisses on the cheek and unreturned phone calls, so I started testing new things. I quit trying to do what society said you were supposed to do, and started doing what I knew worked in the military, and in business. I started using my personal authority.

The effects were dramatic and immediate. All of a sudden, women started approaching me, started calling me, started bothering me. Whereas in the past I couldn’t get a call back after a first date to save my soul, now, they couldn’t wait to see me again, and didn’t want our time together to end. Instead of them not calling, they started calling multiple times—all because I started using my personal authority I’d developed in other, widely disparate venues.

What was really interesting was what they would say to me. Things like, “it’s about time I met a real man” and “it’s to refreshing not be with a momma’s boy,” and my favorite, “I wish there were more men like you.”

And before where there was kisses on the cheek and friendly hugs, now there were steamy nights of passion, and late night phone calls begging me to come over. My favorite of all time was having a friend of mine ditch the guy she was on a date with (at a fancy restaurant) so she could come over and watch a crappy movie with me. She told him she had to “study.” Yeah, we studied all right!

Why would women do this, why were they suddenly aggressive towards me when all I did was show a little personal authority? The answer may surprise you: their biology forces them to. They can’t NOT behave like that—the male behavior of personal authority produces a powerful “attraction reaction” in women, a reaction they have no control over.

The fascinating thing is, looks don’t matter, age doesn’t matter, income doesn’t matter, height doesn’t matter, social status doesn’t matter, as well as any other reason men invent for women not liking them. The only thing that matters is personal authority. Develop that and you can have any woman you want, forever if you want her. Ignore it, and you’ll forever be the guy waiting for the phone to ring while watching crummy TV.

Men Who Confidential Structure of Interest

2010-02-23T08:45:00.001-08:00

Countless number of friends who in turn send the question to how many women there are to be attracted to him? My answer is simply: by becoming an attractive man.

Then there is also a friend who did not want to be charming and likable spreader many women, but just want to pick a specific woman he knew. My answer is the same: to be an interesting man.

Women must be attracted to an attractive man. One very simple sentences, but often make a man trapped, especially at the word 'interesting'.

Because according to Wikipedia, "An attraction is an interest, desire in something or someone," most men try to be interesting in a way to meet the desires and needs of women.

Thus was born the various cultures that special treatment of women, such as very caring, diligent praise, become shamans vent, a lot of sacrifice, all jaim, playing romantic and a gentleman, after many years, and so on. Still in the same category that is trying to pull through the provision of facilities, luxury and unique gifts that can not be given by another man.

Honestly, it was a logical idea and good, except that all of the above only works if and only if the woman had previously had a crush on you!

If he was not interested, you showing useless treatments draw on top. In fact, all women gebetan you'll be disgusted and hate you.

You do not believe it?

This is one example of a woman's attitude toward the man who tried to lossy gifts 'ngarep' to seduce a woman just as Valentine's Day yesterday. She was a friend of the alumni who told me that he was troubled by the treatment and upload the pictures below it on Facebook.

The first pictures are the four kinds of gifts Valentine (Valentine greeting cards, album, diary, a CD soundtrack song Valentine's Day, a funny cat dolls) are given the elements lossy man to the woman hero. Then the second and third picture is the end result of the tragedy: cat doll was stabbed with a kitchen knife, broken song CD, CD cover torn, iron spiral drawn from the album diary end up scattered pages.
I hope the pictures above is enough to convince you to stop being such lossy. If you've already distanced himself from the bad strategy, good ...

... but it may mean that you go into the next category, namely some guy who tried to interpret the 'pull' with the other lines: presenting a thousand and one kinds of behavior to touch and inspire the emotions of women.

The main concept behind the above strategy is that psychologically people (and especially women!) Adapted to process, evaluate, and make decisions based on the emotional side. So if all the men vying to act logically, a piece of another man who acted opposite would automatically seem interesting, is not it?

Brief sounds like a more promising strategy than ever before. To be honest it was to be about 5% of the strategies taught in the workshop Hitman System, particularly on the technical discussion A2. But unfortunately the game like it was not able to make you an interesting person.

O faithful reader, please read carefully: mastering A2 does not make you a man attractive, especially Men Glossy! A2 and various other techniques are tools that can be used by man Glossy, but not the way to Glossy route.

I have a close friend who might be called A2-Master. He did happen to like it used to be small since. When invited to attend training, he felt as a recognition for his expertise A2, so he doubled the frequency of the A2 and other techniques to make it look more attractive, charming, seductive, arouse emotions, and so on.

The result? He did have a lot of female friends, but they only think of him as a man The Acting Interesting, exciting and fun. That's it. He can even show off dozens of pictures along with them. It's just that no single woman who feels attracted to undergo a serious relationship.

They were all friendly and happy to spend time with him, but it's hard for him to proceed to the next level. Even some people think it so strange and disturbing!

The first time for introspection. Please briefly on the third glass the following questions according to your experience so far:

* Have you ever experienced a situation like in the example above?

* Do you have a thousand and one magical mechanics should be able to make a woman interested but it's still somewhat rare?

* Do you spend hundreds of hours looking for powerful techniques to become a versatile man attractive and easy to attract women everywhere?

I'm sure you can reflect on the questions above. You also pretty easy to recognize with your friends are doing that. Whenever you think such a person, immediately conveyed this article addresses on account of their Facebook or Twitter. Do not let them drag on there!

In the case of my friend over, it took almost a year for my friend to finally truly understand and stop repeating the mistakes. I do not want you to spend energy and time for it, that's why it is important for you to focus on what you will read below.

The man who pulled a man who is not present or show something interesting. Talking about an interesting man is talking about a man who has an interesting quality, without the need to make a conscious effort to display it.

He has an aura of attractiveness has become a property really felt and real, rather than a series of actions that must be done.

You'll occasionally see at a shopping mall a man who only use tongs sandals, shorts and T-shirts but somehow you could sense he was not a person of low economic level. In appearance, he was classified as 'village', shabby and as stupid as luxury malls around with costumes so.

But, strangely feel that you feel from him is completely different from the action appearance.

That's what I mean by attractiveness owned and real without difficulty displayed. Attractiveness was obliged terhadirkan synergistically in all aspects of your life, aka a holistic, rather than specifically in relation to romance.

According to the study of modern psychological science, everything has a structure that can be broken down and analyzed into parts smaller so easy to learn. And in terms of attractiveness and attraction to reach this, I divide it into steps Attention - Attraction - Attachment.

What do most of the other men around the romance is mengulik (aka focus) on the steps of Attraction. All the practical tips-tricks in the magazines, books, people and advice, including 15% which is available on the web Hitman System included in these rates.

So if you focus on 'what you should do', then you be the one who is always thinking about the next agenda and the next and the next and so on. Though women have super-sensitive radar to detect whether you are really a quality guy attractive or just a man who knows the ways to attract attention.

Remember well this: a man who never tried to attract attention!

Another case that I often find is people are familiar with the techniques and concepts surrounding spectacular save to pick up women instead of doubt in their hearts that they are not entitled to them. They're like a kid with a fancy shell.

Second introspection you must consider:

* Are you focused to wash away the feelings of the women?

* Do you have a number of technical words that could make him not able to stop thinking and go for you?

* Do you know the secret opening to make it willing to leave his girlfriend and her parents against orders by running to your arms?

The answer yes means you only know the many ways to look attractive, aka you have to keep working hard so that she could see these things.

In seconds you stop doing that, forget, or run out of original ideas, you are no longer looked attractive. More severe, the women will realize that you are not personally like what they previously thought.

If you are trying to attract attention by demonstrating the sophistication, power, skill, and a certain excess, you're doing it totally wrong, brothers!

I quote from the Social Psychology Spark Notes, "Women tend to value partners' social status, wealth, and ambition because these are characteristics of attractive successful men." Note that women would never be interested in what you do, but what you have in yourself.

So even if you could just see the results when the experts do-trick tips, the women will only stick for a moment in your life. Try to be honest, how often it happens to you?

They are only interested, but does not stick. Attractiveness of energy is very weak, if you do not pass the previous steps, ie the center of attention of all the interest and attractiveness.

Going through the Rain

2010-02-18T06:43:00.000-08:00

Have you ever realized that when you decide
to BE DOING SOMETHING or you
have to pass a test where you PHASE-out?
Phase where you will feel pain, which is very, very
painful? Phase where you feel the resistance of
many people including the people closest to you?

For example, if you decide to become a musician or
want to do business, so when PHASE ON THE WAY THERE
or PHASE PROCESS how to get there you will get
so many negative comments, negative advice, advice to
stop doing what you want coming from
many people including the people closest to you?

They'll say things you do that to risk, road
that you take is a big mistake, you are wasting
waste of time, things you do is go alone,
ga ensure certainty of life, it would not be in it, etc..

But when YOU SUCCEED, they actually PRAISE YOU.

Hmmm ... strange is not it?

Most people fail to reach THEIR DREAM
because during the process, they can not stand
all examinations, tests and insults of many who So Ease
Just LOVE comments.??

and you must BELIEVE that 99% of people out there are
BE AWARE AWARE HOBBY MAKE COMMENTS oneself.??

Most stories about the musicians and business-man and the
Scientists and the great people in this world they have
PHASE INSANE own this. They were abused, insulted, shouted, booed and
given "subtle advice" to withdraw from their dreams.

But what are they doing? Are they retreated and
weep for those who dream to live a dream? ... NOT! They trus
pursue their dreams of making their STRATEGY
SUCCESSFUL. Alpha see the story of Thomas Edison, Donald Trumph,
Bill Gates, Colonel Sanders and many-many-many more.??

They are fighters MENTAL.??

What does that mean?

The point is, they fight their own pain
to continue to struggle with the right STRATEGY.

Remember the story of the Wright brothers who had been insulted by nearly
all intelligent people in the world because they have goals
to make people fly? In fact, they become material
derision and got their nickname because they are clowns
hopping using wooden wings in order to
flying ... (you must have never seen the old videos of people who
wear jump wings of wood right? That they are)

Now, who would not know the name airport and
airplane?

I'll give you to be able THROUGH STRATEGY-test
examinations in PHASE PROCESS ON THE WAY THERE with PERFECT??

The strategy is just TWO:

CARE TO PEOPLE WITH THE DEVIL WANT MY drop!

And

FOCUS ON WHAT I REACH!

It's easy right?

BIGGEST THING Then what should I sacrifice for
pursue my dream? Only ONE! ..

What's that?

WASTING YOUR SHAME!

Do not ever feel ashamed for what to DO
you're after, do not feel ashamed of what you REPRESENT
want, never DOWN for small sayings
that hurts your heart?

GO FOR WHAT YOU WANT TO BE! NO-MATTER - WHAT - THEY - SAY!

I give my personal example: At the moment I decided
create a company that provides seminars for
make a BETTER MAN in dealing with
Women, not only was I laughed at and ridiculed, but many
also people who test me by giving INTEGRITY
debate that ultimately wants to prove that I was
people who CAN NOT.

So what do I do?

For those who mock and insult me, I'm pretty
say that I was CLEAR GOAL is to help
the PRIA be BETTER in dealing with WOMEN.
Taunts and insults will not help anyone.
So what's the point? ... In fact, I offer to them
who mock and insult me to actually PARTICIPATE HELP
MY MISSION! ... If they want it good, if not, STOP Mocking.

The funny thing is, they are not aware of his resentment market
them into the crowd ultimately these people
Instead, I KNOW and SUPPORT.??

If they STILL want to argue, it's time to practice
motto "silence is gold" or "silence is golden" and I continue to focus
with what I do.

BREAK THROUGH THE RAIN and BE the MAN that Woman's Love.

Step toward a positive life

2009-11-08T02:40:00.001-08:00

Maybe we've often heard the expression about the benefits of positive thinking. Indeed, according to some studies found that positive people tend to live happier and healthier. However, with the social environment and the thoughts going through our heads, it was not easy to constantly maintain a positive attitude. However, for a good purpose it could not hurt if we try the best. Here are some guidelines steps to maintain a positive attitude.
1. Begin step by step
Sometimes when want change, we want to change everything completely. Rather than change the whole, better improve gradually. Make changes step by step it has a great opportunity to get maximum results.
2. Talking to yourself
Among full week of our time for activities, spend a day just to feel the closeness with yourself. Listen carefully to your heart. Pecayalah that you will feel surprised when I discovered how hard you are to yourself. Digest any expression of conscience and replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts.
3. Stop comparing
Naturally, if we see others as the standard, but do not necessarily make you compare their lives with your own life. Comparing the relationship with the partner and the job you have with what others have to strike hard just your pride. Looking at the strengths of others will only develop the fantasy that it will encourage you fall into a feeling of self-celebration.
4. Self advice
Most people tend to be more adept at resolving problems of others than to fix the problem themselves. If you managed to entertain a friend who is afflicted with problems, ask him what had made him feel comforted. Next time if you have problems, maybe your comfort can be useful for yourself.
5. Prioritizing your self
If you are more often put self-interest in the final sequence, should ever do something for yourself. Prioritize their own interests at the end of the sequence will usually push your self-pity, that it encourages the emergence of a sense of frustration. If anger is the anger builds up, just the people you love that will become the outlet for resentment. Occasional selfishness will only maintain the balance and bring better results for you and people you care about.
6. Focusing on your self
Grow your awareness if you can not change others, but you can change yourself. This method helps you release emotional problems.
7. Take time to play
Every person must have the child in him. Embrace side once again. Has the effect of improving the play of emotions. Curiosity more constructive than criticism. Develop behaviors such as children clashed with the problem, better ask how the workings of your computer than angry because other people better than you.
8. Ask for support from friends
We do not always able to maintain morale. It would be nice if you ask the help of friends to support mememberikan. Tell your trusted friends if you're improving your attitude and let him provide support. Ask his opinion about how you react terhasap an emotional problem.
9. Enjoy the process
Purpose in life is an important point to be achieved. But instead of spikes to make us ignore process. Dream of what the objectives you will only make that dream only in the clouds. But only act step by step that will bring you closer to what you want to achieve.
10. Do not forget to give thanks
Sometimes we forget how much we have in this life. Actually realize the blessings that we receive it will bring bright color in life itself. Begin to make notes every day happy. Remember three things you should be grateful for all day that passes, it will make you more appreciative of life.
If positive life can make us happier and healthier, I think we all deserve to work on that. And may ten guidelines can help you to do so.

CUT THE STRING

2009-11-08T02:25:00.001-08:00

Written by: Anne Ahira

Friends,

"A piece of thread is actually just is in your mind! "

There is a true story about an elephant.
Since childhood he had chained his legs
with a length of 4 meters along the chain.

What happens when the chain was replaced by a thread?

Elephants were still around & not dare to step out of the area
the circle is 4 meters!

From this story, what lessons can we take?

Sorry, I do not mean to equate ourselves with an elephant. :-)

But may be, we have the 'keterbelengguan' with a rope
that binds us!

We do not dare get out of the zone considered comfortable.
Although real,we can do many great things from our estimate!

Let us be honest to yourself,how many opportunities the truth
present, passing in front of you, but You do not care about?

You might consider the opportunity that'too high' for you, and
felt did not belong there.

Or maybe you even feel able to do that when
have never tried it?

We all know, everything that
according to our 'so great', often
not always as we imagine.

Or things that we think is difficult,sometimes actually very easy!

There are two keys in this case:

1. You will be able to if you think you can
2. You will fail if you think fail

So, do not blame anyone if success has not approached us.
Therefore, the main factor lies in the ourselves.

Therefore, consider the carefully, and ask yourself,
Is there a thread that has been imprison ourselves for this?

If yes, then immediately to cut the string!

Try to move forward from the circle as we make and have
imprison ourselves!

Opportunity is actually always present anytime.
However, because we always just close your eyes, ears, and minds
us, then it will miss opportunities just like that!

If you are still hesitant to step, try to practice it
little by little. And if you already convinced,
then immediately ran quick, get out of your circle.

If you already like this, then who else the benefit,
if not your own? :-)

How to Fix Laptop problem "Laptop can not Start"

2009-09-23T04:22:00.000-07:00

Today article i want to discuss unusual topics.Different from previous article,
Now i want to share with you all about laptop problem.we have received a seriously
problem with our laptop for example :
LAPTOP DOES NOT START

If your computer does not start or commonly Reboot at all or it starts but does not start properly, it is possible that you can fix at home without bring the laptop to a repair center. Here are some tips for you. I am not sure that I measure everything at once can cover, so I post as other examples come to mind.

Case 1.

The device appears to be dead. Try to connect the AC adapter, but the LED
(Power light, light from the disk, light battery, etc. ...) does not appears and will not light laptop if you do not press the button to reply.

Firstly, in this situation, make sure the power adapter. Measure the voltage with voltmeter if the voltage input meet requirement of spec. If you can not do is known good power adapter and use it to test the laptop. It is possible the laptop appears to be dead because the AC adapter is bad (and the battery is empty). If you know that the AC adapter is working and that the correct output voltage, but the laptop is still dead, you probably have a power problem on the motherboard (or power card on some phones) and should be replaced .
If you replace the AC adapter, make sure you use sound. The output voltage is exactly the same as the original adapter. The output current must be the same as the original card or higher, not lower.

Case 2.

When you turn on the AC adapter and plug the battery lights. When you press the power button on the laptop, but will not start. There is no video on LCD or external monitor.

If the light is on it indicates that the laptop is powered by the AC adapter. There is probably nothing wrong with the adapter, but only if testing with a voltmeter to check voltage output is correct to do so.
Try this. Disconnect the power adapter, remove the battery and wait 1-2 minutes. Then connect the AC adapter later and then try to start the laptop again. Sometimes this trick helps.
In addition, a memory related problem. Then try reinstalling the memory module, simply remove the location on the motherboard and install it back. Try installing the memory in another slot (if available). If you have two memory modules installed, remove them one by one and start the laptop with one memory module is installed.
If the laptop computer is very good with a memory module in both slots, but will not start the second memory module in both slots, the second memory module is defective. You must replace the module and change with the new one.
If the laptop is fine with both memory modules when they are installed in a slot, but do not start with both memory modules installed in slot B, the B-lock is defective and you replace the motherboard or using a single memory slot.

I hope you satisfied with my sharing.........

BIRD & GRANDFATHER

2009-09-17T07:13:00.000-07:00

Once, a grandfather in Jakarta went to various countries to find happiness. In
an oasis, he saw a sparrow is very beautiful. He managed to catch.
This bird was able to talk. "Grandpa, please let me, later grandfather would meet the demand, "said the bird.

Well, if you can answer that question, you're my release, said the grandfather.
"In Where, when, and how to obtain happiness? "
First, the bird replied, "Do not trust anyone except God Almighty.
Second, do not expect something that you will not be able to get it.
Third, do not regret your past. "
Satisfied, the old man let go of the bird. But, once released, the mocking bird
the old man. "You foolish old man," said the animal. Actually, if grandfather did not let me go, I will give the golden egg. The grandfather was very sorry and
chasing the bird. Animals were then settled on pine tree branch. Grandfather
This curious then tried to grab her and ... he fell and fainted.
When grandfather was recovered, the bird approached. "Basic human being, just a few
minutes I gave instructions for happiness, you've forgotten again. Remember Grandpa, what is I said earlier. Grandpa should not trust anyone but God Almighty! I was just a birds, why Grandpa believe me? "
"Secondly, I was saying do not expect in something that you can not reached.
See result grandfather fell and fainted. "
Third, the bird continued, "do not regret the past. Why Grandpa sorry? Is not
what my grandfather did, that is my release, had happened? "
As he flew up into the bird was claimed angelic messenger of God Almighty to
give lessons to mankind. Hopefully, we are not stupid grandfather
We regret the past.

SENSE OF HUMOR

2009-09-17T07:05:00.000-07:00

The sense of humor is the ability to capture the existence of something funny from an event. The easier one to catch funny things the higher sense of humor. The process is not simple sense of humor. At first your mind trying to capture the funny side, so you think there is something intriguing in a scene. Then your feelings automatically respond with a sense of delight and your body responds with a laugh. Taken together, the body, feelings and thoughts you respond to the incident funny.

Laughing is just one form of physiological expression of a sense of humor. You can feel the humor without laughter. Could be, you only have a small smile as she felt the humor. Usually the hell people think that the more laughter, the more sense of humor that one has. Is true. You can not laugh if you do not have the humor, not!

People who have a sense of humor must be intelligent. There's no way they were stupid. When faced with an event, they can see it from many different sides. It needs its own intelligence. The more quickly and easily find the funny side of an event, so she got smart. Proverb that says "who laughs last, thinks slowest" or "who the last laugh is the most stupid" is true. It was easy to find someone smart or not. Just Look at everyone who was gathering together to tell jokes. If there are confused scratching your head does not understand the expression pairs, whereas the others were laughing, it was certainly the most lazy brain.

Guess the answer to the following joke question, "Why the earth is always spinning around the sun?"

You know that the questions above are questions to be funny-persiflage. So, you have to give unusual answers and funny as possible. But if you can not think of any other answer except for gravity of the sun, then you certainly less creative people. Come what your answer? Despite funny and very least, if you are creative enough, dozens of answers you can provide, here are a few of them: "Wanting to find discount 'sun' of the greatest" (remember the sun supermarkets), "Because the earth like running," "Because beautiful sun's "(remember the dancer beautiful sun)," Just for fun off course. Instead of silence is not no work "," If it's too fast around the Monument National "," If the surrounding villages, later thought to rival a vegetable seller. "

Humor is one kind of creativity the highest that human own. Well, creativity is the highest intelligence of human beings. That is, a sense of humor is honorable. He really is proof that one has the intelligence. There can not be a stupid comedian. They must be smart. Even lazy comedian who is always acting the fool in a joke on TV, can guarantee an intelligent person

So go to heaven when making people smile.

I Hope he he he...... ^ _ ^

LEARNING TO HEAR

2009-09-15T07:18:00.000-07:00

Hi Friends,

Many people can 'say', but a few who would
'hear'. And if we want to go back to natural law,
should we have to listen more than
talk. Is not God gave us two ears and only
one mouth? :-)

Likewise if we see the newborn.
First auditory function than the
another. So, why listen more difficult than
speak?

Although invisible to hear is easy,
but in fact many people prefer to listen
than listening.

Listening is an essential part of determining
effective communication. Without the ability to hear the good,
usually appear many problems. What often happens,
we feel that we are most true. We do not
interested to hear different opinions and only
depends on our way.

Always felt right, most competent, and never
make mistakes. Duh ... angel time! :-)

If we always feel that we are right, and how
it is our best, that means we never
listen. Ideas and opinions are very difficult to change
if the facts do not support our beliefs. Even if there
even the fact we may only just be mere glance.

Maybe this time we are comfortable with the way we are, but for
long period of time, people will reject and
hate us. If we want to start listening to other people,
then one day we will realize our mistake.

The answer to overcoming this nature is to hone skills
active listening. Hearing is not always the quiet,
but it also involves our active participation. Hearing the
better not expect the coming turn to speak.

Hearing is committed to understanding speech and
feelings of our speaker. This is also a form of
appreciation that what other people are talking about
useful for us. At the same time we also can
the maximum benefit from the talks.

Art of listening can build a relationship. If
we do well, people will be interested
with us and our interactions will be more harmonious.

The following simple techniques that can be practiced by you
very natural to be a listener who
either:

1. Maintain good eye contact. This indicates
to the other person about the openness and sincerity
we

2. Forwards. This shows the interest
we are on the subject. It also will
reminds us to have another point of view,
ie not just focus on ourselves.

3. Create a question when there are things that need clarification
or there is new information that we need to find out from the opposite
talk to us.

4. Create an interesting conversation interlude. This can
make conversations more lively and not monotonous.

5. Take or repeated a few words spoken by
our speaker. This shows that we are
listen well to the memorized a few snippets
word.

6. Make a commitment to understand what he was saying,
although we do not like or angry. From here we will
Knowing the values applied our speaker,
which may vary with the value that we apply.

By trying to understand, perhaps we will
find the point of view, insight, perception or awareness
new, that does not occur to us earlier.

A good listener is almost the same
pulled with a good speaker. If we always
on the right pattern for a certain period, then
one day we will feel the benefits.

The process may be felt long and tedious, but
will eventually feel the value of our efforts have
do. We'll feel better for ourselves,
our relationships, our friends, our children, and
job.

Conclusion: Be a good listener, because the nature of this
could be key to developing the mind
positive, and is one of your ladder to
success!

SET YOUR LIFE GOALS

2009-09-14T08:00:00.000-07:00

Hi Friends,

"Without goals, and plans to reach them, you are like a ship
that sail with no destination "- (Fritzhugh Dodson)

That is the metaphor for people who do not have a purpose in life.

Many people walk on a role, but did not know the direction of his life and purpose of life that who want to go. They are their life is what
then done. If something bad happens, they will argue fate on his side.

Not infrequently a person realize the purpose of his life at old age. It is unfortunate indeed.

Often people do not dare to make changes in his life. He just waited, and waited there is changes ... until finally achieved his life goal!

Actually, no matter if we have to change the purpose of life several times. The most important thing is that every time we have a purpose in life is to be achieved. At least we know where we will go and what strategies should be taken.

Maybe this way can provide a reference for you set your destiny.

5 way that You can Use It For Life Goal Setting:

1. Ask your conscience, what you wants for a few years? Dream your destiny.
There is nothing wrong
you're dreaming. you do not need to be ashamed to admit it,
besides, there is no cost tokh should you spend for just dreaming. ;-)

2. Gather information that can help you to be achieve that goal.
If there are other people who have managed to do what you want,
learn from them. Do what they do!

3. Do not just silent, do something and be kept constant that will take you
to the dream alive.

4. If the way you do prove effective and closer to the goal to be achieved, then how
well if you're trying to improve capability and increased speed
for the purpose of life work you more quickly achieved.

5. If things did you do on a continuous without the tired and bored,
Insya-Allah you will get the desired purpose.

You proverbial is a 'sculptor' of the picture
your own life. And a good sculptor will
always have a 'planning' in advance to
get the best results.

In this case, you can also just as large and happy as the goals you set.
Therefore that, keep yourselves well! :-)

Where is Your Happiness?

2009-09-11T07:48:00.000-07:00

Written by: My Friend

"The place to be happy is here. Time for
happy now. The way to be happy is to
make other people happy "- Robert G. Ingersoll

Hi Friends, if this happy moment?

Where is your happiness real? Whether the plump body?
... How beautiful your face? ... Pile of treasure?

.... or maybe a luxury car & high office?

If that's all you got, if you can
make sure that you * will * be happy?

Today I will take you to see, if
abundance of wealth does not always lead to happiness

And this true story ...

There were eight people who have the fate of billionaire less
fun at the end of his life. Year 1923, the billionaire
gathered at the Hotel Edge Water Beach in Chicago, United States
States. At that time, they are a collection of people who
very successful in his day.

However, look at their tragic fate 25 years later!
I'll call it one by one:

=> Charles Schwab, CEO of Bethlehem Steel, steel company
steel famous at that time. He went bankrupt the total,
to be in debt to finance the 5 years of his life
before he died.

=> Richard Whitney, president of the New York Stock Exchange.
This man hrs to spend the rest of his life in prison Sing Sing.

=> Jesse Livermore (king of shares "The Great Bear" in the Wall
Street), Ivar Krueger (copyright CEO), Leon
Fraser (Chairman of the Bank of International Settlements),
three have died of suicide.

=> Hupson Howard, CEO of the largest gas company in the United
North. Hupson mentally ill and died in a psychiatric hospital.

=> Cutton Arthur, owner of the largest flour mill in the world,
died in the land of others.

=> Albert Fall, a member of the U.S. president's cabinet,
died at his home when he had just come out of prison.

The story above is a proof, that the abundant wealth
not guarantee the end of a happy life!

Happiness is a factor so desirable
for all people. Almost all the goals in the estuary have
happiness. Most people just can feel * alive *
if you've found happiness.

Question ... where we can find happiness?
Was at the mall? An expensive beauty salon?
Fancy restaurant? In Hawaii? in Paris? or where?

In fact, happiness is ill need to look anywhere ...
because he was in the heart of every human being.

Find the joy in your heart!
Browse 'feel' it in kalbumu!
Believe me, he would not run anywhere ...

Today I will share tips on how we actually
can find happiness * every day *. Here are
tips you can do:

1. Start Sharing!

Make it happy by sharing with people
other. By way of sharing will make our lives feel
more meaningful.

2. Waive the heart of hatred, free your mind from
any concerns.

Saving hatred, anger or jealousy will only
makes the heart feel uncomfortable and tortured.

3. Give more in forgiveness!

If anyone is hurt, do not curse back.
Better shout "Hey! You have my pardon!!".

By having this attitude, our hearts will be
more calm, and our anger may be lost. Not believe?
Try it! I often do. :-)

4. Do something meaningful.

Life in this world is only temporary. Better to use
all the time and opportunity to do
things that are meaningful, for themselves, their families, and
others. In this way then your happiness
will grow and continue to grow.

5. And last, you should not expect too much
in others, you'll be disappointed!

Remember, happiness is the responsibility of each,
not the responsibility of friends, family, lovers, or anyone else.

Better hope we multiply only to the Most
Love and Rich. Because he was the one who created us, and
It is He who created all 'feel', including the feeling of happiness
you always wanted. ^ _ ^

A Story from my friend

2009-09-05T08:51:00.000-07:00

Hi Friend ...

Since childhood I always wanted to travel ...
I want to fly, high, free, loose, like a bird ...

Then finally to become a "I dream", I can get what
what I want, go traveling, to many countries.

Well, some time ago I went to Korea, and my trip to Korea
left a lot of memories you want I have told All of you myfriend.

The first day of my time arrive and stand for myfeet
in Seoul, I said .. "Legs, today you became king. I will follow all your desires,
please you walk, to wherever you want ...
I will follow you! ".

That's the words that I often cast every time I go abroad.

Communicating with legs, is ridiculous sounds, but I'm not making this up
that is often the case even that I find incredible!

When I give the foot the freedom to take me anywhere it want to go, and
NO MAPS, it often took me to places I've ever dreamed
always! Weird? But it was real!

This leg seemed to know what will My first time, and he kept
the 'memory foot' until finally he take me there!

Likewise on the trip this time ...
My feet had brought me to the place which I think is incredible!

We 'Flashback' a little bit yah he he he ...! :-)

First story, a small time I love watching kung-fu movies. I
remember to buy shoes, kung-fu by My mom and I always wear every
day without going off! LOL ;-)

At that time I imagine if I is part of an ancient kingdom,
and live where the King!

Every time before going to sleep, I like to talk own 'cang cing cong' I imagine
was chatting with a group of soldiers King and I is the Queen of them or any
a warrior of their empire.
(My dream is Lebay! haa .. ^ _ ^)

Back to the present ...

Well, the first day when I arrived in Seoul Korea, I decided to walk
afternoon. Until I arrived at a crossing the road ....

My eyes glanced to the actual Right, because there seemed no actual
exhibitions and seemed quite busy!

BUT ... This leg took me wants to continue to walk toward the
counterclockwise (to the left)! When I See, on the left was in fact not
Nothing! Empty!

But I think I do not want to betray. This day became king khan feet, so I
Just follow him than desires
lust of the eyes. Hehe ..

After walking a while, suddenly
I heard a voice of Rebana ...
Dung Dung ... ... ... Dung Dung .... and voice
comes exactly from the direction in which the foot I took me to walk!

In My deep heart i ask something... "Want to take where you feet? "

I follow the voice, according to the direction in which feet to walk! The louder the sound
of Rebana ( a music equipment that used to accompany songs of "qosidah",kind of a music i have ever known when i was e little child)) it sounded, the more this leg
asked me to run.

Until the end I was in this place ...

SEOUL ......

I fell silent, shocked, and amazed!
My body suddenly felt shaky and I flying! How can my feet take
me to this place without a plan, and without a map?

Seoul City is very AREA. But how the foot can take me to run * first time *
to place this one ..? Place I never dreamed when I was a child, in
Where I want to stand near a set warrior king!! Dream become reality!

And I was crying ...

I cried ... as a sign of gratitude to the Almighty. He SO loves me.
All the dreams I always He grant.

Yes! My dream slightest, although I must wait for 20 years, but he
grant! Grant it ...!

For most people might see the view is common, but for me it was WONDERFUL! Because this beautiful landscape
I see EXACTLY the same time like the one in my shadow first!

I want to make known to you all ...

As a child I never cut a photos to then I multiply that picture
by the way the photo copies, and I stick the image is the image the cities in the world.
As a child I can not print photos because do not have money, so capable only photo copies!
hehe ..

I told my mama "One time I am going round the world ".

Every person who came into my room when It must have laughed,
because they see the pictures shaped my copy photos stuck
everywhere.

Yes, I attach one photograph on different images of the cities
world that I took from the piece of the calendar.

Every night before going to bed, I always look at the picture one by one. Imagining
"Oh yes .. yes .. I'd been there".

Silly, little time I also often write letter to the Embassy of each country, ask
information about their countries, as if I want to go to their country
months ahead!

"Please sir, please send immediate information about your country, following the maps yes! Because I want to go there "hahaha!

Logically, any time it may thinking "How could someone like me around
world? My mother is only a vendor of fried bananas around, My father used small entrepreneurship who arrange a small store"

But friends do not believe it when I say ALL city / state in which the pictures I have attached
first time I was finally able to visit them all!

And I went instead to the cost of the others (such as the cost of government or company),
but from the sweat & hard work alone. That is the business I run my own business.

If it had only a dream, now I can go whenever and wherever I want!

Each travel, I always stay at the hotel 5 stars, enjoying the incredible scenery,
and much more ...!

Well, oddly enough, not infrequently every time I go to other country, i have feeling
"I think I'd been here deh!"

Maybe because I never dreamed before?
Dunno ... What is clear, I do not
never had the slightest doubt as I
dreaming!

I always let my dream flow it is, there was no rejection in
mind ... until all of it really came and become reality!

Well, what lessons can you take from my experience at the top?

Today I will write it in a sentence ...

The future ......." who belongs believe in the beauty of their dreams ". :-)

Hopefully my experience can be an inspiration for Friends friends as well!

Warmest regards always,
from your friend ...

DARK SIDE OF LIVE

2009-09-03T05:35:00.000-07:00

Let's do an experiment ...

Turn off all lights and take your room a candle.
Blame it to light candles and watch
backward ... you will find is a black body
a very large body shape resembling that no other
is your own shadow.

You realize that the small lamp of wax has been shown
you would your own shadow?

Big shadow always follow you and will always be
there is in you, these things ARE JUST NOT LOOKING
until you are blaming a candle lantern that will realize
you will be so.

There PART within yourself that resembles the object that
Another was called the DARK SIDE or THE DARK SIDE. Psychologists
call it ID, or The Demon which is basically
form of self-indulgence, lust, GREED and selfishness.

This will not be seen UNTIL you blame "a small candle lantern"
your heart that you will be aware of your DARK SIDE.

With the awareness that no matter how small, will be very
useful for you to BE SEEN and CONTROL
"The dark side of you" than you are controlled by it.

NO PLACE SPECIAL SATISFACTION all lust for the dark side of you,
but if you do not control him to place
in place, then the dark side of life you will destroy
you.

War, Rape, Abuse, Murder, and Behavior
Anarchist WHICH IS based on the selfishness of the lack of
ability of someone to SEE and CONTROL dark side
them.

Someone who becomes the victim will make a darker side of life
their own misery, full of problems and full of drama.

Therefore, it is good you will RECOGNIZE the
the dark side of yourself to identify with what it
desires based on your PASSION will only
ruin your life.

Take a piece of paper and write REALLY all desire -
whatever you desire it PASSION INCLUDING things SHAME
Acknowledge. Take a good look at your own writings and UNDERSTAND what
will TAKE you become a better man, and WHERE the
will only make you more immersed in your dark side.

And always remember that the dark side may manifest itself
noise-whisper as you pat on the head ... By the time you want to take
a decision, then your head will be filled with whispers,
debate and battle between dark and light side of the heart
who wants to save you from the dark side.

Dark side filled with sweet words are very tempting
for you choose, while the lamp is not as sweet as liver dark side
EVEN sometimes difficult to run.

The dark side of fast but promises instant gratification, while the lamp
to offer long-term satisfaction that will not be seen
after you take a few phases.

It takes maturity to think and WISDOM to be
actually holding fluctuations sweet dark side which basically DIFFICULT
to be rejected. Even most of the men had made the dark side
they are as addictive substances that will always be to direct them
to destruction.

Whatever RESULTS from whatever you do is RESPONSIBILITIES
your own. And RESULTS you get it based on ACTION
you who come from the decisions you make based on the dark side
(dark side) or a light heart (conscience).

Total Quality Management

2009-08-12T06:38:00.000-07:00

TQM is an approach in running a business that tries to maximize organizational competitiveness through continuous improvement on products, services, people, process, and the environment .

TQM is a major destination for Reorientation of management system, the behavior of staff, a focus on organization and processes of service providers so that services institutions can be in better, more effective services that meet the needs, wants and needs customers

Main benefits of the implementation of TQM in the public sector is the improvement of service, cost reduction and customer satisfaction. Progressive improvement in the quality management system and services generate increased customer satisfaction. In addition, another benefit that can be seen is the increase in expertise, enthusiasm and confidence among the staff of public service, repairing the relationship between the government and its people, increasing accountability and transparency in government and increasing productivity and efficiency of public services.

TQM can only be achieved by considering the following characteristics:

1. Focus on customers satisfied, both internal and external customers.

2. Have the obsession of high quality.

3. Using a scientific approach in decision making and problem-solving.

4. Have long-term commitment.

5. Requires team cooperation (teamwork).

6. Improve the process on an ongoing basis.

7. Conducting education and training.

8. Providing the freedom restrained.

9. Own goal unit.

10. Involvement and empowerment of employees.

Principles be guided by the TQM include:
1) campaign that focuses on environmental quality,
2) introduction of customer satisfaction as a key indicator of quality and
3) changes in the system, behavior and processes in order to run a repair step for step, and continuously to the goods and services provided by an organization.

Environments that focus on quality is an organization where the services are tailored to the needs and purposes with the customer and cost affordable to a consensus among the members of the organization. The core approach of this kind is the level of customer service satisfaction, which in itself shows the effectiveness of services.

The key to overcoming the above challenges is to promote changes in the behavior management system and service provider organizations. This includes building commitment for change, promoting the participation of all stakeholders and empower the team work. Commitment to change the approach to the organization in terms of services starting from senior level managers, but the change itself that applicated by all staff at all layers.

TQM in order to succeed, both the client and the team must work to become active partners in development services. In particular, so that customers must be satisfied then the staff have the necessary expertise and have a sense of service. Employees at all levels must be trained in flexibility to meet customer needs, both in and outside the organization.

The key to success of 5S Implementation

2009-07-08T22:39:00.000-07:00

What is 5S?

5S is a method for organizing a workplace, especially a shared workplace (like a Factory Building or an office space), and keeping it organized.The key targets of 5S are improved workplace morale, safety and efficiency.

The 5S's are:

1 - Seiri ( Sorting) : Going through all the tools, materials, etc, in the plant and work area and keeping only essential items. Everything else is stored or discarded.

2 - Seiton (Straighten or Set in Order) : Focuses on efficiency. When we translate this to "Straighten or Set in Order", it sounds like more sorting or sweeping, but the intent is to arrange the tools, equipment and parts in a manner that promotes work flow. For example, tools and equipment should be kept where they will be used (i.e. straighten the flow path), and the process should be set in an order that maximizes efficiency. For every thing there should be place and every thing should be in its place. (Demarcation and labeling of place.)

3 - Seisō (Sweeping or Shining or Cleanliness) : Systematic Cleaning or the need to keep the workplace clean as well as neat. At the end of each shift, the work area is cleaned up and everything is restored to its place. This makes it easy to know what goes where and have confidence that everything is where it should be. The key point is that maintaining cleanliness should be part of the daily work - not an occasional activity initiated when things get too messy.

4 - Seiketsu (Standardizing) : Standardized work practices or operating in a consistent and standardized fashion. Everyone knows exactly what his or her responsibilities are to keep above 3S's.

5 - Shitsuke ( Sustaining the discipline) : Refers to maintaining and reviewing standards. Once the previous 4S's have been established, they become the new way to operate. Maintain the focus on this new way of operating, and do not allow a gradual decline back to the old ways of operating. However, when an issue arises such as a suggested improvement, a new way of working, a new tool or a new output requirement, then a review of the first 4S's is appropriate.

Implementation of 5S in order to be able done with good things we have to consider the following:
Do not rely on the tools of 5S

* Slogan 5S, 5S Pin, and the Checklist is 5S tools helper conditions for maintaining 5S
* 5S assert that as lifestyle, including mental, spirit, and physical exercise, such as in education in military discipline or spiritual activities.

Give support at every opportunity

* Each employee has to maintain the attitude or rejects conditions 5S
* Spur the spirit of each employee to execute 5S in every opportunity that is (For example: 5S in the seminar, the activities on-the-job training, meetings and meetings)

Create annotations to be easily understood

* Discuss 5S in practice, not only theoretical of 5S
* Create conditions to be easily identificated (Like: Red Label, 5S Board, Image before and after 5S)

Involve all employees

* Employees not only participated but it must mean that the involvement of
* Do not dispose of waste of time in the process of a feasibility study with the goal of avoiding the involvement of employees in the "trial-and error"

discipline

* Do not be angry
* Disappointed on the bad behavior and poor conditions that are not human